MiLady and i have a D/s relationship. As the sub, i stay at home while She goes to the office. She is close enough that sometimes She will come for lunch, either alone or with a coworker or two. i prepare the lunch(es), serve T/them, and let T/them have some privacy.
Ok so, today MiLady called and She said She'd be home for lunch with a guest. She came home with a guy, who She said, was a friend (not a coworker).... She drove T/them here.
She told him i was Her cook and nothing else. She said to just call me by my last name if he needed something.
T/they ate and as T/they were leaving, She put Her arm through his, turned and said, "I'll let you know about dinner. I may be going out." he looked at Her, smiled and T/they left arm in arm.....
i am crushed and so worried. Should i call Her and ask Her to come home for dinner? Suppose She didn't go back to the office? Would She think i'm checking up on Her?
All suggestions would be appreciated! i can't even think anymore.
2007-08-21 07:43:40 · 12 answers · asked by sAm cbt 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
OK, you are in a D/s relationship - and you have rules - and you know them. yes, you are overacting. your Mistress has ever right to entertain anyone she wishes - you know this. Stop the behavior and the pouting. you have no right to quetion her at all - and you know that too. Even if she did not go back to the office - that is her right - and you know it. And yes, she would think you were checking on her & overstepping your place - are you looking for punishment, here. better quit - right NOW! you know that She has rights, that you do not - such is the nature of your relationship - if you wish to renegotiate - you must speak to Her about that at a later time - but not now. you also know that She may be interested in another - as is the right of a Domme - this is something that the two of Y/you should to have discussed already - it should be in your service contract - and where you fit into such a situation. If you are to be made a cuck, you need to be ready. Perhaps it was absolutely nothing, but do NOT question Her authority.
2007-08-21 11:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Your her sub and by the sound of it her servant. I know what you are feeling I have had a little of the same problem but she told you she would let you know and you must at this stage abide by this. Only later when she has returned possibly the next day you could ask to speak to her and tell her how you felt about that situation. Hopefully she will then say she will be more aware of your feelings in the future or she may say she will continue to behave as she wishes too regardless of your feelings. If this is the out come you must then make up your mind if you wish to continue with the relationship. If you do, and bear in mind dominant ladies are not all that easy to find, then you will have to put up with it. Of course she may say she is taking this man as her lover and again you will then have to decided if you are going to stay with her. Of course it is easy for me to say as all the ladies I have served I have not been in love with so whatever they did was okay be me,
2007-08-21 10:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You have accepted the role of sub, live with it. If you cannot live with it wait until she comes home an talk to her about it. Prepare yourself for an end though if she truly is a Domme.
Maybe she was just playing a joke and seeing what you would do.
btw I am a sub
2007-08-21 08:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
From me: he's probable already cheated. possibly he hasn't bodily cheated yet he's even have been given some emotional affair happening. besides that stuff he's being disrespectful to not in hassle-free terms you yet your toddler by ability of not putting his family individuals first in his existence. This needs to alter so you might proceed your marriage. you're actually not overreacting and you're actually not incorrect for asking him to on no account enter the liquor save lower back. He could desire to admire which you're feeling uneasy approximately him being there and choose you and the toddler over a stinkin' liquor save that he can do without. From my husband: "it incredibly is too previous due. He already cheated on you. fairly if he isn't answering the calls. Sorry to cock block yet he needs to possess up. something isn't suitable right here."
2016-10-16 08:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by herrion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Beneficial D/s relationship NEVER denigrates the sub to someone that is merely a servant. You're not a Slave, you're a sub.
If she is disrespecting you as a person then it's time to move on...get out!!
Yes, you should be able to call her at work and ask her the nature of this new relationship between her lunch guest. You should never be made to feel as if you are not respected as a part of this relationship. Submissives are NOT SLAVES. If your Domme has crossed that line, you should have the right to protest this behavior. If your Domme does not take your feelings into consideration...it's is definitely time to leave!
2007-08-21 07:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
I am choosing not read the entire question because, number 1 it is very very long, and number 2 if you have to ask a question like, "Am I over-reacting" the answer is always YES!
2007-08-21 08:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry but if your girl wasnt joking shes a toal B#*$%. What the heck your no ones servent, you should call her and demand what her problem is? Why did you let yourself be treated that way?
2007-08-21 08:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Morrissey 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Your relationship is one of special rules - she said she would let you know and she will until then go clean the house.
2007-08-21 07:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like she is turning straight.
2007-08-21 08:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by D.C. B 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would call
2007-08-21 10:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by Sissy Angela 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋