I just wanted an outside opinion on this.
I had sex with my boyfriend at the time in the middle of December. We broke up shortly afterwords. An ex-boyfriend came back into my life in January. I had a period on 01/14-01/18. The new boyfriend and I began having sex on 01/19 and continued until 2/14. I found out I was pregnant on 02/11. Unforturnately I miscarried on 2/25. When I told my boyfriend that I was pregnant, he asked how I knew it was his. He had been the only man I had been with since I had my period. Things got bad between us and he left the week I found out I was pregnant. A week after I lost the baby, he claimed that it couldn't have been his, he had a vasectomy.
My question is, Is it more likely that he is lying or that the pregnancy was a result of having sex in December with the other guy? When I went in for the transvaginal ultrasound, the tech said it was too early to really see anything (on 02/23).
2007-08-21 06:43:51 · 5 answers · asked by Renee L 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am normally really good about tracking dates, as this was my 4th pregnancy and miscarriage. I just don't see how it is possible that he couldn't be the father.
2007-08-21 06:52:18 · update #1
He is 35 and I am 30. He does have 2 other children from a previous relationship. We have been together off and on for 10 years and have discussed having a child together at different times. I had been pregnant by him 2 times before and lost both.
2007-08-21 06:53:56 · update #2
I don't want to make it seem like he is a bad person. He really is a great guy. There are things that have happened in the past between us that have caused some trust issues and I understood why he would want to make sure. We split up for several months after all of this and are just now talking to each other again.
2007-08-21 06:56:49 · update #3
He is probably lying. Vasectomies rarely fail.
2007-08-21 12:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Your Brother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you had a period, I would assume that the baby was fathered by the second boyfriend, although it is possible to have a period when you are pregnant, so that is not 100%. I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage, but considering that neither of these men seem like long-term options, you are probably better off. As far as your second bf having a vasectomy, he was probably trying to avoid responsibility.
2007-08-21 06:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by jml167 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vasectomies are not 100% guaranteed, regardless what the doctors want to make you believe. My father had one like 10 years before he met my mom, and only 2 years after they met, I came along. As Living proof that they aren't 100 %, It is possible to become pregnant after he has the procedure
2016-05-19 00:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it was the Jan/Feb boyfriend's. He might have had a vasectomy, but a vasectomy isn't 100%. Don't worry about it......he obviously isn't very nice.
I'm sorry you lost the baby. That must be hard. : (
2007-08-21 06:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by memahizer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well how old is this young man and does he have any other children if he's not that old and doesn't have any kids they usually won't do a vasectomy. I wouldn't worry about it he was probably lieing.
2007-08-21 06:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by MaRaNdA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋