Has anyone found out that once you get married the sex seems to slow down from 3 to 4 times a day to once or twice a month. As the years go buy your lucky to get it once a year ect. So why buy the cow when the milk is free and plentyfull? I have had plenty of married friends complain of this have any of you?
2007-08-21 06:40:23 · 13 answers · asked by The ENFORCER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. This person speaks of truth. But. alas, there is more to life than sex and you will miss those things if all you seek is sex.
2007-08-21 06:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Willie J 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No One and I mean NO One, not even non married couples can keep up the pace of two or three times a day for year after year. Sex is like that at first for everyone, but it will slow down for every one too. If all you are concerned about is how frequently you are under the sheets with some one, then by all means don't get married. But you will not stay in any long term relationships either.
Couples who have strong marriages work together to make sure that each partner is satisfied with the quality and quantity of intimacy in the marriage.
2007-08-21 06:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by jules 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
what bull! the cow can't be bought anymore, because the cow doesn't need to be bought. she's able to find plenty of grass, warmth, etc, without any help from anyone, so she can give her milk to whoever she feels like! if the farmer or bull wants to have a good cow, he might have to think about what makes him a worthwhile farmer or bull. if he acts like an a$$, he'll miss all the good cows, might not even notice them and will just go from cow to cow, not knowing the value of a wonderful top notch cow and will get washed out and will take any cow he can get in the end.
2016-04-01 09:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that has more to do with living together than with marriage. When you are dating and living separately, sex is a great escape from your daily issues.
Once two people live together their daily responsibilities become shared and sex becomes something to schedule along with everything else that has to be done.
Also, life has a way of throwing in some curve balls that also cause your sex drive to drop. Stress at work, loss of a loved one and many more. These are things that you and your significant other share when you already live together more so than when you live in separate homes.
Take care,
Troy
Happily Married for Five Years
2007-08-21 06:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard this on here many many times and to be quite honest, after over 16 years of marriage I havent noticed any changes at all. But then we didn't base our relationship entirely on sex from the begining either. For us, it's more about the actual desire to be part of each others lives. Though not all people carry our same views. From what I see on here, I would say that its a common thing for the most part though.
2007-08-21 06:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most of the answerers have given very mature and circumspect answers. These are good snubs for the shallow questioner.However it is indeed painful to seen that there do breathesuch sould so dead. I have come across families who could not even consumate the marriage on account of mental and physical disabi lities carry on with dedication
2007-08-21 07:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is your entire thought process done with just your little head? Then surely your life hasn't much meaning, and the connection to your wife isn't very significant. How sad for you.... how much sadder for her.
2007-08-21 06:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
don't give us all the rep of being this way, you sound like you need things to work on with your partner
2007-08-21 07:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by Stymie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah! both my husband's libido died after marriage. Said they felt like they had no reason to keep up with me anymore, since they "had" me. HA!!!!!!!
2007-08-21 06:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
seems to be the "norm"....... That's why we're here answering all the "i've got a lover and don't know what to do" ?'s.
2007-08-21 06:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by sunflowergal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋