I've tried to warn people that I'm evil. I've never really felt those emotions that people refer to as "sympathy," "compassion," or "guilt."
But everyone thinks I'm joking or exaggerating. I'M NOT.
It gets awkward when situations arise when real emotion seems required. Like when someone is sick or going through something difficult. They get emotional. They still expect me to care (despite the warnings that I’m evil!).
Emotional people make me really uncomfortable. I just sort of stare at them and don’t know what to do.
So, should I try to make my friends understand that I’m not the one to call in a crisis, or is there some way to force myself to be more compassionate?
2007-08-21 06:07:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your funny.
i say be yoruself.
when the time is right, do the right things
we all have choices. and you have you choice to be who youw ant, or who your friend want you to be.
If you want to be nice in general, start acting upon your manners and all that.
*it makes you less evil*
p.s. your funny
2007-08-21 06:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by [t].spoon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you think you are evil? Because you certain situation don't cause you to respond in the prescribed manner? What is evil about that? That tells me you are practical, not evil!
Who cares what your friends think? If you care, then you are not as dispassionate as you claim. If you don't really care, then ignore them. I do. My closest friends know that if they are looking for an ear to talk to, or someone to list to their problems then I am here for them, but I'll tell them what I think of there situation regardless of how it makes them feel. I don't pull punches, and I don't get emotional. I just don't do it. I don't see the point. So if you need a shoulder to cry on, I'm here, but I won't cry with you and if my shoulder gets too wet, I'll tell you to get a towel. ;-)
Is that evil? Nope! It's just me!
I hope this helps.
2007-08-21 10:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most evil people don't see themselves as evil, rather they justify everything they do with some psuedo-excuse which absolves them from all blame. Consequently, few evil people would bother warning the public of their evil nature or evil intent for the same reasons....nor would they concern themselves with being compassionate in any regards. I just think you're misunderstood, mostly by yourself.
2007-08-21 06:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it possible that there may have been an event in your life that has changed your perception of acceptable emotions??
i think if you are here asking, then you do have these emotions, but for some reason have turned them"off""... i have seen this with abuse or trauma..
if there has been no abuse or trauma, and this bothers you then go talk to a therapist, and see why you feel so detached..
also, sometimes it happens to block these emotions so to not get attached to anyone,,, it is a way of safegaurding yourself against possible hurt...
but then you may never really live either..
2007-08-21 06:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by im a goonie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embrace your evilness! It's okay to be unemotional - but do you consider yourself a sociopath?
For example, when you see someone get hurt do you feel a pang in your stomach (visceral effect?). Or, if you get in trouble at work, does that make you feel bad or guilty?
If you said yes to the above questions - your fine. If you said no, you may want to see a psychotherapist to talk about your lack of compassion and conscience.
Good luck!
2007-08-21 06:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bgirl9488 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing Be Yourself
Nothing Wrong With Being Evil
2007-08-21 06:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not showing those emotions doesn't make you "evil" but counseling may help you learn why you've chosen not to have them in your emotinal repertoire.
Everyone has access to all the emotions...you've just chosen, for whatever reason, to block some of yours.
2007-08-21 06:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not evil, you're a sociopath. Able to distinguish emotions, but unable to feel them. It's not really a problem unless you do anything illegal.
2007-08-21 06:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Riddle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well because you posted this question it seems you are a nice person and your avatar shows a soft girl with a smile. Keep calm and all will be well.
2007-08-21 06:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are as evil as you say you shouldn't have to warn them... they will eventually figure it out.
2007-08-21 06:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by girlnextdoor409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋