ok..I hav this friend who i shall name"emma"....she has a seroius problem..i mean every time i like a boy she starts liking the same boy..half the time i dont care but this past march...i was reduced to tears for months cause...
i'll name the guy "andrew"..ok i was really good freinds w/ andrew and we used to talk on the phone and everything..so he was knida like my first love and all..but he had a crush on emma...and emma had promised me she didnt like andrew...but being the b**** she is..she lied...but the problem was i knew since october that she lied andrew..and then i confronted her in march and she got all scared..i mean she thinks she is a good lier and all but i see rite through her... so then in march when andrew told me..it was the WORST experince ever!!!!!! i felt like half of my life was over...and the thing is i told andrew i knew who liked him..then i hanged up the phone..the next day i acted all normal and all the that nte i told andrew it was me who liked him..kinda...
2007-08-21 06:04:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
arkward...so now im worried bout the future..i mean now im so sure she likes this guy i'll name "alex" and now im soooo SURE that she likes him..so wat do i do??????
2007-08-21 06:08:15 · update #1
Everyone who suggested that you break your friendship with Emma is correct. You do not need friends that will hurt you, and go after every boy that you like. Emma sounds as though she has a difficult time being her own person. She lacks self confidence, and can not even find a boy that she likes for herself. In a way, I feel a bit sorry for Emma, not being able to make her own decisions, or know how to be a kind, loyal friend. Unfortunately, this is all part of maturing, and learning what a true friend is all about. I am sorry that you feel so awful, but as you enter the dating scene, you will find boys who will be absolutely crazy about you, and will treat you with all the respect and loyalty you deserve. Do not worry about your future, I have a very strong sense that you will be absolutely fine.
2007-08-28 07:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh....my friend did the exact thing to me....! she like decided to go out with the boy i had and on and off crush for like 7 years...7 Years OK ...she was such a b....h and she was supposed to be my best friend. the boys was my friend also. and it was like the last day of term this happened it was the year i was to live the school. My only regrets is that i never told him the truth even though some off the other boys had asked me before if i liked him.
2007-08-28 13:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by funmbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww =[ that sucks, i had that problem too, iono what it is about some girls that they have to be so screwed up, all youu can do is find a guy who will like you and wont pay attention to her, or stop being friends with her, which can be really hard sometimes, and its kinda scarry and akward to just break a friendship of, but you deserve friends who dont do this to you...
2007-08-28 21:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control other people. All you can do is dump Emma as a friend and quit confiding in her.
2007-08-21 06:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
0mg, i used to have the same probelm.
Its okay it leats you let him know, he may proablly like you, usally guys say that they like ur friend but they mite be telling you that to make you jelous, and if he doesnt like you its okay everyone gets rejected once in a while. Your friend did betray you, and she can be kind of fake, i have a bestfriend who gets alot of guys to, and sometimes i think she is a fake friend but its hard to stop someones friend.
Soo i think wut you did on the phone thing was really smart, let anythony chase you.
hope i help = ]
2007-08-21 06:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by kristen. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some new friends and forget emma thats all u need to do right now
2007-08-21 06:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by !urbeauty! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soo..NOT A FRIEND prb....BOY PRB!!..Stay friends with em...boys will play you girls just for a kiss...wake up...Ems not the problem..he is..
2007-08-28 14:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by snapacookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop telling her who you like.....you could also misdirect her and tell her you like someone you can't stand.
2007-08-29 00:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Master T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋