I'd say!
And if you are g-a-y and 30/ male and a christian, you should get married anyway as a cover up. Thats always a good idea.
2007-08-21 05:02:31
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answered by bellesnail 4
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I will say "No!" to your question. I have found that most men in their 30's and early 40's are divorced. There are many reasons why they might be married by 30. They focused on there career's. When they are comfortable financially , they look for there life partner. The divorce rate is so high. It's hard to find couples that have been married and/or dating over 10 years.
I don't know where you go your info on the 700 club staff but I had found two that weren't married until their 30's.
Get married right after high school? I would have to say that is what society has got us thinking. In my opinion, it's was common for our parents to be married after high school in the late 50's to 70's. I don't think it's the right answer for now or the past decade. The cost of living is different and focus on further education is why men and woman have but off get married after high school. It is very hard to raise a family on one income or two incomes with only a high school education.
The question you should ask someone over the age of 30 is: Have you been married? When was your divorce? Do you have children? The child question is important. They don't have to been married to have a child. When you ask these questions, you should have an idea in your mind what type of man or woman you want to be with.
2007-08-21 05:41:32
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answered by utterlyred48 1
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That assumption is neither safe nor smart. There are any career minded people who chose to build their own life before taking on any responsibilities that they may be unwilling to accept. Women as well need more time to mature, and experience life.
Most people do not know what they want, or how to go about getting it at the tender age of 18...They seem to have a very disjointed and limited view of the world when they exit high school. Their whole universe is only a few square miles in one section of the country. Even within that small world, they do not look at what is happening, they just try to put labels on people so that they don't have to think.
There is a whole world of choices out there, and it's unreasonable to expect that people can make an intelligent decision with only a dim knowledge that there is a larger world just over the horizon.
Considering that I do not personally know anyone who is past the age of 30, and still on their first wife, or husband, it may be a more mature choice...wish I had done that.
2007-08-21 04:47:53
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answered by Joe 5
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Please. I know couple of men whom are in their 30's. One was 40 when he actually had his first girlfriend. Before he said he wanted to find the right one and she came along when he was 40. Talking about not settling for just anyone. They have been married for more than 10 years and very happy. If a woman isn't married by 30, does that make her a lesbian? Just like people get married for love, companionship or other reasons, many chose to stay single for many other reasons too.
2007-08-21 04:38:25
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answered by Pinolera 6
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No, I didn't get married until I was 32. My mom marrried at 16, and was married 3 times. I wasn't going to repeat her mistakes. I had plenty of options to marry, just not the right ones. I've been married 10 years now. There is no certain age. Hopefully this single man is dating and trying to find a mate. You gotta just date and finally you will find the right one. If this man is shy, get over it and just date, because life just passes you by. It's never too late to marry.
2007-08-21 04:50:27
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answered by timzapasn 3
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Do not assume a man is gay just because he is single. And his age is irrelevant.
And getting married after High School is no longer the norm. You get married anytime after 18 whenever you find love and/or raise a family.
2007-08-21 04:37:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes. The 700 Club is full of people to be emulated and worshiped. I know this because I sent in $500 and got a ziplock bag of magic Jesus sand.
2007-08-21 05:08:25
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answered by Anonymous
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I wonder how many pedofiles are in the 700 club? Surely there must be skeletons in their closets somewhere....
30 and single means he hasn't found the right woman yet.
Never "ASSUME" because you make an A55 out of U and ME
2007-08-21 04:38:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Not at all. Most men don't have any sexual options by the time they are thirty, so if they want nookie they have to marry. If you want babies you should marry as well. If you don't want kids, and have options, why would you get married?
Those dudes in the 700 club were dorks when they were younger, they all married the first option they had.
2007-08-21 04:36:19
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answered by Tim 6
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Howdy Kerm:
How could anyone with a shred of common sense in their head put stock into what Paul and Jan (with the piles and piles of dusty hair) have to say about anything?
Change the channel; the 700-Club is seriously effing with your mind!
2007-08-21 04:38:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Definitely not! Wouldn't assume he was gay unless he is sleeping with men. Getting married right out of high school is not the brightest idea!
2007-08-21 04:36:53
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answered by seaturtle36 6
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