Indicating the psychological impact and reactions, solutions to misappropriated responses gained from abuse and neglect. ie how to survive a second marriage, recognize patterns of old behavior and how to fix it. I haven't found a book on this.
2007-08-21 04:16:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The Bible is the best one out there.
Let go of the past and Pretend that it's your first marriage because if you are forgiven according to God he forgot that you ever got divorced.
I am a WIDOW and My husbands wife LEFT him......She divorced him - Just LIKE JOBS wife left him and he REMARRIED!!!!!
According to the New Testament - Where does it say that He/She commits adultery......That is under the Law which is Old Testament. We are not under the Law.......We are Under GRACE!!!!
The Bible doesn't say the widow/widowers can only marry non married or widow/widowers it says to marry in the fellowship or brotherhood of the same religion........Christian in my case.
2007-08-21 04:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a reason why there is such a high failure rate of 2nd marriages. God doesn't believe in divorce. If you look in the Bible it says that remarriage is adultery. God only recognizes the covenant vows made between two people who have never married before. Only widows and widowers can remarry and they can only marry someone who has never married before or is a widow or widower themselves.
The exception clause of adultery is a mistranslation. Look at the links below for further information. There is no exception to divorce period.
The only book anyone needs is the Bible.
2007-08-21 04:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok good permit me say that I do not believe plenty of folks's opinion of cheaters. Yes ninety five% of the time I agree that anyone who cheats will cheat once more BUT that is not the case for every person. I consider that you simply will have to seem on the data. Yes he tousled BIG TIME however he additionally admitted it instantly. That suggests he has integrity and did not desire to deceive you. He additionally confirmed regret and was once disenchanted. I consider that there are a couple of exceptional varieties of cheaters. There are the cheaters who cheat on account that they may be able to and so they do just it, there are the cheaters who cheat on account that they're lacking whatever from their courting, and there are the cheaters who cheat as soon as and it's the greatest mistake of their lifestyles and so they be taught from it and in no way do it once more. It feels like your husband falls underneath the final class. Since you do not desire to divorce him then do not! I could advocate seeing a wedding counselor. I consider it would support you get beyond a few of these emotions and it's going to be in an atmosphere in which you each may also be sincere. As for paintings and him going out you are going to simply need to give an explanation for to him that he has to earn your believe again. That you like him and recognize this was once out of man or woman but it surely does not difference the best way you believe. Explain that he demands to be in touch with you while he is going and hold up open verbal exchange. He additionally demands to restrict this lady AT ALL COSTS! Of path he works together with her so it possibly unavoidable at a few aspects however they have to keep an basically official courting. If he's out with the men and this lady suggests up then he's taking that as his cue to depart (he can do that with out seeming impolite). I consider you're dealing with this good however I consider you possibly suppressing a few of your real emotions. A counselor will have to support with that and perhaps support upgrade your verbal exchange inside the connection and optimistically minimize your few giant blow ups.
2016-09-05 08:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need a book to help. you shoudl learn from other things in your life. dont' make those mistakes again. there are so many things involve din this also. for instances sometimes the persons dont' get along its no ones fault its just that the two were n't compatible. and if you are looking for same things that is what makes the world go around and look hard for it.
2007-08-24 17:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't hurt.
2007-08-21 04:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by wwbrad90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure
2007-08-21 04:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋