What women most like from husband?

Question

Hi There, I would like to know what women most like form their husband.

I am recently getting married and It is a typical south American Marriage, We never had sex before, we met and talked each other about several issues that’s all. I just wondering would anyone help to find out what women most like in order to make her happy at all the time. I mean, all their desire activities and conversations women do like when they get married. Would you anyone help me with that please. some of you might have experience about it.

Thanking you for your time.

Answer 1

attention, attention, attention..............give all your attention to her, give all your money to her....im not joking, just do whatever she says..........dont even talk back....
a woman's mentality is "me, me, and me again"

Answer 2

its not all attention if she's a sane down to earth girl then all she'll want is some of your time for example if she tells you a little bout her day don't grunt while still watching the televsion with your mouth hanging open she's your wife you should be interested in how her day went. Respect always show he the respect that she deserves and always be her equal just because she's youe wife does not mean that she has to be tied to the kitchen sink and all her day consists of is working cleaning and cooking its the 21st century nowhere does it say that men are allergic to cleaning help out every once in a while its not that bad honest. Always always remember important dates i.e. anniversary and birthday and especially your wedding song you never know when it will come on the radio and she'll say awh honey do you remember this and you have no idea what she's talking about that will make her ANGRY hopw iv helped a little

Answer 3

Hi Rocky :)
just I hit on your question
and read all the answers
wow ! when you didn't get confused about that all
I got confused ;)
so now you can throw dice for the right answer ;)

but ! you said you never had sex before
well that's really quite strange for Europe
as I caught your question at the UK & Ireland Yahoo Q&A

also what I think is that your question doesn't make the point what exactely you want to know

but as I think you are not a muslim and you have not to marry a totally unknown person chosen by your family
I presume you got to know your girl pesonally
and you said that you talked about different things...
and by this you fell in love to each other
is that right ?
so she loves you for how you are
and you loves her for how she is
??? am I right ?
you love each others behaviour
how you get treated by the other
the conversation, the chat...

and that's just the first point which is important

when you're living together
there will come up other things you still don't know of each other
but for this there is no scale for to look after
everybody is different
you just have to talk about what you like or dislike
she has to talk about that as well as you
there might be just little things but they're also important for to talk about
to get to know each other closer in a life together
you will learn to get rid of your "bad habbits" only when you're talking about because without to talk you'll never know why the other has a bad mood ;)

hey it really might be just an open toothpaste tube in the bathroom ;)
just any little example ;)
but also respect such little things
it wont hurt nobody to close it...
I hope you could understand me
I didn't really talk about an open toothpaste tube ;)
it was just any example
( hey maybe your girl loves open toothpaste tubes ;)

but now about sex
where I think that's the main point you want to know about something ?
hey but here, really nobody can tell you the right
that's just your job
there you really have to explore each others body
and do not rush with that
just start very carefully
stroke her where you're thinking about that she'll like it
but ask she if she like it
as maybe she will be too shy for to show you, that it isn't that what she desire...
you have really to explore each others body
and forget any books or stories which want to tell you what girls like
as everybody is different
but also show you your girl what you like or dislike
when you like that she should touch your dick
lead her had carefully to it
if she is scared about
keep your hand at her and go back again with her
you can try it again... another time....
you just have to learn and to find out how you're feeling comfy with each other
and I think when the first step is done
carefully
you will get opener to each other in the point of sex
as you'll get trust in that of each other
and you can say what you like or dislike

it's still so new for you
so take time for it
it is so wonderful
and never take a example of anything you can see in a movie or video or any silly stories of any idiots...

hehe, and if you wasn't conused yet
now you'll be ;)

have a great life in all points with your girl :)

Answer 4

Happiness and love is the most important thing in a marriage. To spend the rest of your lives together you will probably face many of both good and bad times. As long as the tow of you remain solid and remain happy with each other then there isn't much you won't be able to take on together. Always be there for her and be supportive and hopefully she will be the same back to you. Remebr to give and take and most importantly, remeber to be the best of friends as well as husband and wife. Good Luck x

Answer 5

Best thing you can do is talk to her and LISTEN to what she actually says, not what you expect her to say because that is what your mother/aunt/sister/friend would have said. Never compare her to anyone else.
You have to be prepared to show affection and not take her for granted (she has to do the same for you though!). If you constantly communicate, tell each other how you feel, your hopes and dreams, etc. and listen to each other then you stand a good chance of a happy marriage.
Just love each other.

Answer 6

Nothing is more sexier then a man who helps around the house, mopping, dishes, cooking etc. any help so that my day as a stay at home Mom is easier so I can have more time to relax is amazing! When my husband comes home from work I am pulling my hair out from being home all day with the children so he helps finish up any undone chores I do so we both can sit and have our evening coffee and enjoy our children together. It's a beautiful thing.

Answer 7

It's pretty simple:

1. Security - to know she feels safe and well provided for.

2. Open communication - detailed and honest communication. (Not one or two word responses when she asks a question.)

3. Leadership (don't confuse with being dominating & controlling) - lead the family, the finances, discipline & training of children.

4. Non-sexual Affection

Answer 8

in my humble opinion it takes 3 things LOVE, TRUST and RESPECT. as long as your always honest with each other and respect each other, you will have so much fun finding out the answers to your own question as you get to know your new wife.
Congratulations x

ps. there is always the special intimate moments, once your married you can experiment all you like, a spicy sex life helps keep the cobwebs away x

Answer 9

It makes no difference where you are getting married as most woman get married for the same reasons. Your wife will want to be listened to above all else. She will feel that her opinion counts on the decisions made (and they do). Pay her the same attention that you wish to have and simply treat her well. By the way....Staying out of extra marital relationships helps out allot too.

Answer 10

Attention

Answer 11

a huge happiness started from a little step!
-a german priest said in my marriage-

my husband and I met thru the i-net. he's a german, i'm an indonesian. he had not so much money as you, i believe, but he risked to go to my country just to see me for real and it really touched me. he sold all his fav CD collections just to bought a flight ticket, also did a part time job and save all that he could earn...oh my God, can you imagine that?

so, by my experience, money maybe can make women happy (but not me), but the attentions and sacrifice, also the way you make her feel special are the most important from all...