Why are women BITCHY?

Question

unboubtably I'm gonna get slagged for this one but all women are jealous of each other.
well you know what I mean, if the other girl is better looking , has a better figure and is more intelligent, why does the other girl hate her so much.
This does not happen with men as we are more sane.

I know what you mean when you say some women would rather be with male company than be with female company.
even girls have told me this.
I have no idea I dont think many men has any idea why they are like this.

now come on I never said you or anyone was not beautiful..of course all males admire girls but girls do not admire each other

I'm not saying men dont slag each other off but we usually do it face to face.
but I have had ,say four girls in my car(luckyme I wish), and when one gets out the other three are talkin about her straight away. Its weird

I'm not good lookin and dont care usually girls look at other guys before me and well you know how that feels but what hell..yet I'm still not jealous of that other guy see what I me.
not only that girls seem to be attracted to complete a**h*les..why is that.

Answer 1

I know what you mean, and I'm a woman. I see it all the time. One of my friends doesn't like to be around anyone she thinks is prettier than she is, (she still hangs around me hmmm...) or if another woman is going to be the center of attention like at her birthday party or something, then this friend doesn't want to go. This is why I don't have very many women friends and would much rather have guy friends. You're right, guys are much more level headed and down to earth.

Answer 2

There is no logic in your statement.

You have taken your experiences and have projected them onto ALL of life.
There's a whole world out there of people getting along and enjoying each other's company regardless of who they are or what they look like.

Find yourself a better group of people and change your attitude and your world will change accordingly. We get what we expect in life.

And on that note let's explore "bitchy". The last I looked, I wouldn't describe any of these women - that is if you're going to use the term "all" - as bitchy.

Mother Theresa
Margaret Thatcher
Paula Radcliffe
Carol Vorderman
Helen Ghosh
Helen Mirren
Judi Dench
Sarah Tremellen
Helen Keller

To answer your question of "why are women so bitchy?" would be to address most of Western society's ills and to answer the question of why is so-called beauty rewarded but being a genuine person isn't and that goes for men and women.

What Edmund T wrote about women is funny because when I was 1 of 4 women out of 4,000 men on an Army base, I saw men do exactly the behaviour he described! He is describing human behaviour not female behaviour. Very interesting, indeed. Guess it depends on who's looking, eh?

To Silvertongue: Well stated and honest.

Answer 3

Not all women are bitchy, but there are a majority, particularly in groups. I'm not an angel myself, because I have bitched in the past (when in school - just because it's what everyone else did - sheep!), but no more - I got absolutely no satisfaction from it and felt incredibly guilty about it after. I don't see the point in it, it's just pure nastiness.

I don't think it's just jealousy that sparks bitching, a major factor (in my opinion) is people misunderstanding each other, intolerance and ignorance of someone else's character/way of living.
Basically, anyone who bitches about someone else, doesn't know the first thing about them and can't be bothered to get to know them because they don't fit into 'their group/posy', because they're different.

To my surprise, I've found it isn't just women who are guilty of this either. I started a new job about 12 months ago, within a male dominated environment. I've NEVER, in my life encountered so much bitching in one place, they ***** for Britain!
'Man bitching' is much more subtle than 'women bitching', but it is what it is!
So, it's probably a 'group mentality thing'.
Why people can't just make an effort and get to know someone, before resorting to bitching, is beyond me!

Answer 4

Men are more sane, ha, that's a good one!

It seems to me that you are dealing with young and immature women who do not yet know their own strengths and weaknesses, and who are in competition with each other for the perks of life. Jealousy is a common feature, I think.

But as we women get older, we appreciate each other more. We learn to use more than our looks as a yardstick, and therefore start to appreciate each other's other qualities, as opposed to being nasty about them. It's partly a confidence thing.

Back to men being more sane - honey, I've seen fellas do the exact same thing, slagging each other off in a nasty way behind each other's backs ... while being great buddies to each other's faces. Men may be more sane, but at least women are more honest.

Answer 5

The pressures of society. The perfect this. The perfect that.
It can be heartbreaking for some women. And what is perfect? There's no such thing. I would love to live in a world where no matter what you look like you are accepted for who you are because thats more important than anything.
The beauty industry. The porn industry. Fashion. All very demeaning to women. None of us are perfect and neither are you men.

Answer 6

Its in our DNA!
I'm not jealous of other women, nor do i hate someone for being better looking or have a better figure, that's all don't to self belief and your own personal insecurities.

But i am a ***** I love a good gossip

Answer 7

Because men make them so! They cause so much competition between women and make them jealous and then when they become bitchy you want to ask why!

Answer 8

Gee, because we feel that we're being compared? Or that the only thing that matters to others is how we look?

Somehow I'm not surprised that guys don't understand. They get to be judged on their manners, their sense of humor, their paycheck. All pretty easy to change, compared to the genetic lottery.

I'm sure pretty much every woman out there has been "bitchy" more than once because she felt unattractive and unnoticed.

Answer 9

I could not care a fig for what other woman look like. I will compliment them on their looks, the way they dress and have never been jealous of any woman. It is just a waste of time. What does anger me though is when in the program '10 years younger they use filmstars, models as how a woman should look in their forties or fifties, that is unfair they have had plastic surgery etc.

Answer 10

sorry, but I'm a bloke and I see guys bitching about other guys all the time, they also ***** about women they don't even know, based on their appearance. most guys just wait till the guy goes to the loo and then states that he's a d**khead, or something along those lines. its also noted that men tend to spend more time in the shower, than women, and spend more time deciding whether they look okay to leave the house, more than women. how many guys (poofs) do you see down t' pub wi gel int'air and moisturisers on th' face, they'll be wearin' foundation next. face it some of our breed are more feminine than my mother, its just the times we live in.