Jesus Christ.
It wouldn't be so bad except she puts him first before our marriage and will yell out his name during sex. She has also read his scriptures after sex and if I do not do something to her liking will ask - what would Jesus do?
Seriously, my wife has been obsessing to the point she is using Jesus as a wedge in our marriage, what should I do?
2007-08-21 01:36:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I go to church with her, watch Joel Olstein and Ed Young, but do draw the line on the Catholic channel. When we are in the car we can only listen to the Christian rock station. It is getting to the point I truly am beginning to hate God. My son (he is 13) has also been turned off by God. She uses God as a punishment and will flip out on minor things when the kids misbehave.
2007-08-21 01:52:37 · update #1
I'll let you know right now, she has some very serious personal issues that need addressing by a professional.
It's possible that your pastor can help the situation, since she and yourself attend church. This is more direct and could make an impact more immediate. That's the first step.
While it is not good to use the Lord as a wall and wedge in a Christian marriage, her connecting sex with Him shows some extreme behaviour. Have a checked asap with a counselor before your marriage will fail, caused by a cover of religiosity.
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2007-08-21 03:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay this don't sound right because God himself made the institution of marriage. Yelling Jesus name during sex OMG! kinda weird you guys need counselling to come to a middle ground why don't you both go to like a christain relationship counselor who can help your wife come to a middle ground because you two are one and she is your partner you are meant to support and uphold each other together. you might even want to take some interest in her religion too that way you guys are on the same ground. I wish you luck
2007-08-21 01:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Versacetica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Dude! If it comes down between you and and God...YOU LOSE! She is going to choose Jesus over you...there is no way you can change that. Maybe you should take a page from her book and join her...everyone needs God in their lives!
2007-08-21 01:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by yuma yuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also a Christian but I think she needs help. It's just sick and wrong to shout out the Lord's name when having sex!!!
2007-08-21 01:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Pam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus gave you a wife, without Jesus you wouldn't have a wife. Bow down
2007-08-21 01:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just mayb u to r not meant to b together??if she is really into jesus,n u r not,or hav u tried to go to church with her??mayb u will find n ure heart,what she really feels..good luck
2007-08-21 01:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to become a nun then she will be married to Jesus.
2007-08-21 03:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to force her beliefs on you...would not stand for it! If you are unhappy...get out! Sorry you are going through what you are going through. I don't think I could stand it!!!!!
2007-08-21 08:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who love god don't use him like a crutch, they have a relationship...the bible tells her to obey you...tell her to knock it off!
Seriously sounds like she is unstable...Good luck!
2007-08-21 22:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by ladyq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you feel incomfortable that she is using the bible as a means of expressing herself , ask that she moan during sex instead , tell her that the bible has it`s place, and please don`t use it during sex
2007-08-21 01:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋