I enjoy crossdressing with lingerie, stockings, skirts, tops, etc. My gf does not know cuz I do it when I'm alone. I would like to stop hiding and have her participate with me...
Please offer some suggestions how I can tell her in such a way that she will support me.
PS I am so afraid that she will see something of mine (panties, etc.) and think it belongs to another girl! We don't live together, but have talked about and it will happen sooner than later.
Thanks everyone!
2007-08-21 01:31:14 · 7 answers · asked by Movinonup 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Geez. There is no way to phrase something that will make it okay or not okay to any one person. She will either be okay with this or she won't. You can't force somebody to change something intrinsic. Personally, if my boyfriend told me thi sI would not accept it. This is becaus ei like manly men, and a guy in women's clothing is repulsive or funny for me. Having said this, perhaps your girl is not like me. She may be more open minded to gender bending - so all you can do is tell the truth. It is who you are afterall. You must remember that just as it is your right to do this, it is her right to either enjoy it or not. Tell her calmly, say it's a prt of who you are, and why you like it. She may react one way or the other, she may even blow and and then reconsider, but ultimately you must take the risk and be true to yourself.
2007-08-21 01:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I must tell you about my life I have an impossible dream I would like to look as pretty as you in your soft shapely clothing and this has been with me most of my life I have researched crossdressing and it has no cure it does not make me love you less indeed it makes me even more keen on you and leaves me desiring to wear clothing just as pretty as you do Im sorry if this upsets you but I am not gay I just like dressing as a girl and feeling similar feelings as you do ~~
2007-08-21 01:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know how u could tell that to ur gf because if I were her, I'd just go, " BWA!HA!HA!HA!HA!". So maybe u don't have to tell her anything at all. As they say, what you don't know won't hurt. And instead,why not try to change. If u want your relationship to last, better do something about it . Even before she learns of your eccentricity.
"He that will not apply new remedies must expect new evils." - Francis Bacon
2007-08-21 01:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by rcg_palomo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An easy way to break the news to her would be to have a Victorias Secret party at your house and be the main model.
2007-08-21 02:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by ~ Floridian`` 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her when shes trying something on say bet that looks better on me and swap then when it comes time for you's to go out somewhere you can take just as long as her getting ready just say no too make-up thou it anit for bros'
2007-08-21 01:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by art1ej 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time you compliment her on something she's wearing, ask her if you can borrow it some time.
2007-08-21 01:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I like to wear ladies clothes. (I like to dress in women's avitars)
2007-08-21 02:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Village Player 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋