i'm married but still very often like to look at other guys, is this normal?
2007-08-21 01:19:42 · 17 answers · asked by bec 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's a natural thing to look at other men and find them attractive, but don't over do! It shouldn't be the same as when you were single! And make sure you don't act upon anything and you're fine! Also, make sure it's not obvious to the hubby. You wouldn't be happy if you caught him looking at other females all the time.
2007-08-21 01:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes very normal I still do it. No harm in it. Been married for 3 years.
2007-08-21 11:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Fashay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very abnormal. Most married women hate looking at other guys. Their eyes are averted at all times. If they look at a guy by mistake, they fast for 3 days!
2007-08-21 09:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its totally normal. You can always look, but NEVER touch.
My husband and I play little games. He looks at other woman, I look at other men, and we "people watch" with them, thinking of something silly or crazy we fantasize them doing to us. A very good couples game, then most of the time we go home and act out our little ideas. Very healthy for the both of us and keeps the relationship steaming.
Be open with your man about it though. You can't get jealous if he looks/talks about other woman, nor can he do the same.
2007-08-21 08:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by nopeaken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still look and so does he... we will be out at the store and he will say.. that poor girl has no ***. Everyone looks, it is healthy. Are there more attractive men out there? I'm sure GQ would think so, but in my eyes no guy is better looking than my man.
Being at the beach though and looking at tan muscles are nice once and awhile...
2007-08-21 08:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is normal. That is how your brain is wired. For eons, women would choose good providers as mates and when they are ovulation have sneaky sex with alpha males. That would give them children that are stronger, smarter, and better able to survive. Women that did not do what was in the best interest of their children, including selecting the best genes available, are not our ancestors.
By looking, you are subconsciously evaluating the genetic merits of potential sperm donors for your children. If you don't give your children every possible advantage and if you withhold from your children better genes, you are a bad mother.
2007-08-21 08:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's a normal thing and trust me your husband looks too so you're not alone in that. I'm happily married but find myself looking too, but only looking and I know he does too. It's more or less force of habit I suppose lol.
2007-08-21 10:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by skyicedragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say normal and okay as long as you know that it is okay to look but not touch. i dont think any one person can be everything to another at all times. it is normal and healthy to have fantasies, admire others and so on as long as you know where to draw the line.
2007-08-21 08:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by ohiojeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long it is all you do then it's normal. If you start hitting on and flirting with guys then you have crossed the line.
2007-08-21 09:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look that is fine, just don't always do it where your hubby can see. That is disrespectful and not very nice. If you go beyond looking you are asking for trouble and are very very wrong.
2007-08-21 08:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by chris d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋