hey friends, in weekdays i just feel soooooo much lonely as i m all alone at home whole day.......in college also that silly jokes & all nowadays irritates me........i cannot share my feelings with anyone........just wait for weekends when my siss & bro comes but the whole week seems so much boring....so plsssss suggest some way to avoid this loneliness & make my day more interesting.....
2007-08-21 01:15:02 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
MAKE THE FRIEND OF YOUR LIKE MINDED AND SHARE THE THINGS WITH THEM.
2007-08-21 02:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, it would seem that you are depressed. You have got in to a rut and you must get out of this. Ok, what to do. Well, you have made a start by coming on here and talking. Now you need to do this more often. What about trying a penfriend site, choose maybe two people that you think you could get along with. Keep the conversation light and not depressing because they may leave quickly, also, if you keep it light, then you will suddenly realise that you are not depressed any more. Now, what about your interests, what about trying to learn something, the drums or a guitar, see if you can join a group where you are all learning something of fun together or a group where you have the same interests/ hobby. Before you know it, you will be chatting away, laughing and joking and having fun. Dont forget though, we are all here if you want chat. Warm regards
2007-08-21 07:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should join some activities and try to get out of the house. Since u are alone at home all day, u tend to become bored and irritating. U need to get out. Join something like painting class, arts, music, anything that interests you. Thgis way u will meet people. Go to a park somewhere and read some books. Fresh air really does u good. Also try to go jogging or do some form of exercise everyday for sometime. Keep yourself busy and u'll not feel lonely.
2007-08-21 03:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by SS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you are a bookworm, fat and an introvert.
You really need a turn around if you really want to live an interesting life.
Well here's some suggestions which you can try and make life interesting.
1. Join a music class - learn to sing or play some instruments like flute, tabla, violin etc.
2. Join aerobic classes and get fit.
3. Join a club and play some games like batminton, tennis, billiards etc.
4. Stop sitting in front of the Computer for more hours.
5. Learn cooking, swimming, painting, sculpting etc.
6. Do social service, teach free of cost.
2007-08-24 15:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by satishfreeman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important that u must not allow such thoughts otherwise it will lead u to more complications. Of course if u like u can devote ur time in helping your neighbours, friend, relatives and other by whatever mean u can....also try some NGO they must have some thing interesting for u.
Best of Luck
2007-08-21 01:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tilak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit college,find yourself a spouse,have 5 - 6 kids and believe me you will never be bored again.If you don't feel this is for you than get a part time job at burger king or McD's.being this bored is no good for you.Get some kind of activity in your life.Go to the gym.Come over to my house as I have a huge pile of stone that has to be shoveled into a wheelbarrow ,dumped in the back yard and spread.Now that will make you un-bored.
2007-08-27 06:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by drummer158 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a local group or team as that would get you in front of people who have similar interests, and thus be a potential friend. Also, make sure that when you're walking, your head is held up high (sounds simple, but most people walk with their heads down), and smile. Simple, but very effective.
2007-08-28 11:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by by N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indulge in sm creative hobbies..reading, learning music , dance or some instrument, surfing, take soome useful course lik a comp course, interior designing etc....try n make new frnds.You can join NGO, believe me it gives inner peace..I do it..
Most imp thng u shld do is to introspect n find out the reason for your unhappiness n loneliness.....
I would like to help u in smthng lik dat...Lets b frnds...v_j1984@yahoo.co.in
2007-08-21 22:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by v j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go out and do somehting instead of staying home being bored. go to the store and shop or library at the school. or just trying tostart a conversation with some one. what do you got to lose. if your that embarressed go to a bar and have a drink with a few classmates
2007-08-28 04:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by grumpyjen28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an idle mind is the workshop of the devil. keep yourself busy with reading, writing, viewing tv, browsing internet, chatting with ur Creator and above all, do service to the less fortunate by joining any NGO service organization. God bless u!
2007-08-21 01:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by jimmybond 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same problem
you need to be positive and always smile when people walk past you and smile back if they smile at you. Do something rebelllious and take one of your friends to do something really exciting or gets snacks and study wif hhe/she
laugh!!!! please laugh
its the most important things
fav quote:
live well
laugh often
love much
2007-08-21 01:19:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋