From 8-9 years I am facing problems in my personal life. Like divorce and other problems.
Now I have tired and frustrated.I have lost hope. For recharge myself I try to learn many new things like new language, new course but after some time I again come in frustration. What should I do? I feel that everybody is happy except me
in this world. Sometime I think for sucide also. When will end my problems. Please suggest me.
2007-08-21 00:50:33 · 9 answers · asked by poonam s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-08-21 00:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear life is always full of problems, you work on better your self thinking that is going to make you happy? no the problem is that your never satisfy with your accomplishments and always looking for more, you need a counselor if you have suicidal thoughts you really need help.. think of those people that are homeless on drugs their life have no meaning, you in the other hand have what it takes to learn other languages and you have accomplish so much and still miserable, life is hard but at the same time is a gift, no one has a problem free life everyone has troubles, have fun do things that you enjoy forget about frustration or what frustrate you.. you better start living your life, for life is just one.. Get a counselor talk to someone.. Your life is worth it.. good luck.
2007-08-21 08:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at times life sucks. i had a divorce alittle over a yr ago. i left my 3 little girls(3yr,2yr, 9month old)with my ex because i had no job or home to go to. i had nothing to give them at that moment. i have afew other issues in my life right now and every day it is hard to get up in the morning. but i do. u never know what the day will bring. u never know what will happen in a week or a month. dont kill ur self. u are here for a reason.suicide is a permit deal to a temporary problem. cherish the moments that u enjoyed. do things that make u happy, try not to dwell on the negativity, trust me i know is hard, its all i can do to keep from braking down every time i see a young child or leave mine after my weekends are over. learning new things are good, but if its not working then it may call for desperate measures.go talk to a councilor or hot lines. get involve in a Church with activities and such. what language did u learn?did u teach ur self or go through school to do it?u must be pretty smart if u thought ur self.
good luck and try to relax.things will blow over eventually.
2007-08-21 08:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by gtt_crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen babe you need to not think about anything or anyone else but your self for a moment.close your eyes take a deep breath then open.do something you have never done before but wanted to do since you were a child.do not try to please anybody but yourself because the only person on this planet that you need to change and need to please is yourself.if people have a problem with you then it's their bigger problem.they need to grow up.dont you dare ever think about suicide again.come on man wake up what will that acheive it wont make your family happy it wont make your friends love you any more and it certainly wont solve your problems.talk to your mum or dad or even a close friend and tell them how you feel etc.you might find that it may help you.good luck
2007-08-21 08:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking too much about yourself, it only makes things worse. Try either volunteering/helping others. Like old people, delivering them food or helping them go shopping or try spending time helping children at a boys and girls club after school. Or you can give your help at a animal shelter helping walk dogs. Animals are amazing for helping us through our problems. Once you start giving yourself to help others you will find a happiness you never imagined possible.
2007-08-21 08:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by gmoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to see a specialist right now he will help you get through this hard time for you there are so many that have this type of feelings remember you are not alone you may think you are but you arenot. it will come through take one day at a time and it will get better.
2007-08-25 00:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poonam...suicide is not an answer, it is selfish. It affects the people who you leave behind the most. Stop obsessing over your self, be a giving person and you will find happiness.
2007-08-21 07:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by Cheri >^.^< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have depression, go see a doctor.
2007-08-21 08:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with your parents or a counselor at your school, no little kid should want to have feelings about wanting to die
2007-08-25 07:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋