ok my girlfriend and me went out for 4 years we had good terms and also bad terms we broke up and ended as enemies..we tried to be friends but didnt workout we ended up kissin remind u she has a boyfriend now..everytime we dont speak we always find eachother online with the same questions..hows life going??her boyfriend found out we spoke and got really mad at her..she tells me shes happy with him but he told her not to speak to me and she still does...she checks my mypace because she drops comments in them...if her boyfriend sees this he will kill her..why is she doing this?....shes hurting her boyfriends feelings by speaking to me but she tells me shes happy with him...so what does she want??
2007-08-21 00:46:13 · 1 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Like most of us she doesn't know, so don't think she is wiser then her peers!!! Not like she's some sort of life guru who knows all the answers, no offense but that would be the only way she would of known what she wants. With that said most relationships end because there is a lack of purpose both parties can feel, but have no clue how to address. She still loves you buddy, trust me, we don't loss love for anyone whose been close enough to scar us, doesn't happen. But understand also (and without even knowing the dynamics of your guys relationship) that she knows that it is just going to fail with you again. That doesn't destroy the love mind you, but it does keep her from taking her feelings all the way. Maybe a change in you, can bring her back around, because it would seem she needs you. You have a choice buddy, let the bs of this world confuse you, or let your heart, mind, wisdom guide you. It isn't easy, theres no manual, theres no reason to it, its just following purpose, find yours buddy, and bring that lady with you. Cause your right, if she was happy, there would be no reason to sneak for you. If she was happy, there be no reason to talk to you. If she was happy there would of been no reason to lie. Besides the best we can hope for here is peace, anyone claiming happiness is lieing, its like saying everythings FINE... its just a canned, and cliche' response becasue society, ourselves, and the situation give us no other option. Learn some more about you, this world, find your purpose like I said before, and go for her, not with just love, but with passion, compassion, companionship, understanding and trust, you guys have history, to do this right, could be big enough to change the way you die, isn't that worth fighting for in itself? Besides, people will follow anyone or anything, if the purpose they give is great enough to catch their passions.....
2007-08-23 08:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋