Do you tend to loose friends easily?

Question

Or you can bear up with them up to some limit and what that limit would be. For example, Dignity, Loyality,...etc.

I lost my best friend because he kept his wedding date a secret from me and he did that for no obvious reason, at least for me. I didn't have any contact with him ever since.

@hasafer:
Please go easy on Marhama, she is a good friend of mine.
Cheers man.

@Noor:
Some friends are keen on removing some stones out and guess what, at a certain stone removed, the building will collapse by itself.

tweety:
Stick to your friend. She might need you someday when she finds out that the other girl is bad and you don't want her to loose both of you.

Kalooka:
I don't have an ex
BTW, you got it right somehow about (el7asad)

Answer 1

They say easy come, easy gone. And the opposite is definitely true.

I think making "Best" friends should be a lengthy process based on numerous factors and experiences. I mean you can not have a best friend overnight. It takes years and years to transform someone from just a mere aquaintance to a best friend.

Loosing a best friend should be an equally lengthy process. Having this status of best friend should make us tolerant towards each others' mistakes. After all we are all humans and we all have our mistakes. Loosing a best friend should not be because of a single event but rather due to the accumulation of wrong doings beyond a certain limit.

We have to aknowledge that friendship is not always about having fun, even good friends will innevitably have their up and down moments. But real friendship shows most in moments of difficulty and can surpass many obstacles.

Answer 2

I've had problems with that before. What you need to do is hang out more on the weekends or after school. In fact, one way I've kept friends around was by getting my parents to be friends with their parents. If you're still at the age where you have your parents take you to your friends house instead of driving yourself, then come at a time when your friend's parents are home. Usually they start talking and sometimes they end up being friends too, which means you'll get more chances to hang out and get to know each other better.

Answer 3

Hello Salah,

Getting to know people is the easiest thing in the world for me but considering them my friends takes some time and effort because it changes everything in our relation.

The first thing i do is try to accept their weaknesses or their faults coz after this everything else is a bliss. It takes hard work to maintain this unique relationship from both sides but believe me it is worth it.

Thank God i have never lost a friend, we may become busy and lose touch for a while but when we meet afterwards there is never that strange feeling of unfamiliarity.

I am so sorry that u lost touch with yr friend but why don't u give him one last chance and call him up and congratulate him on his marriage u could even open up to him and tell him what made u upset, and see where it goes from there. If he really cares for u, if he is a true friend, he would try to make amends. But please do consider that there r some secrets or should i say some privacy which each one of us is entitled to. Maybe if u can accept this u might forgive him.

Hope i helped.

Answer 4

You said he was your best friend, so, you know him more than yourself, so, you should know that when he made his wedding a secret then he had certain circumstances which forced him to do so, you didnt give him a chance after that to explain his situation or tell you why did he do so, I think you must give him a call today and ask about him, you will loose nothing.
I would call him even if he was a normal friend, but a best i will visit him directly and ask him why, believe me if you don't call him you will regret not doing it foor your whole life and will keep thinking about why did he do so and why didnt i call him, so, please call him
edit: To marham and salah, please never take friends for granted, are your satisfied loosing something in 1 second which you spent many years building them? its like setting up a building and you built it stone by stone, then when you discovered that when you ran out of stones to continue building it, you decided to ram the whole building down

Answer 5

Hey Salah? Are you sure he didn't marry your ex. or something? lol..i mean why the hell he didn't tell you? (khayef men el7asad? leih? da gawaz!!)

It is very sad when you lose a friend. i know this feeling coz i lost one this year...

Edit:
Ok..i thought so too..because i have my dear relative (she) was my friend and suddenly she (under the pressure of her new fiance) started to do stuff on a very short notice
1. called me to tell that her wedding is after 10 days!!! (i thought "WHAT? why 's the hurry?"
2. I and most of family members didn't know what's the story? he has no apartment here yet, so where are you both gonna live after the wedding ceremony? the answer is "they are travelling abroad"
3. she called me again to tell me that she's travelling to switzerland for good!! and that was 2 days before leaving!

CONCLUSION:
1. your friend is probably of the same stupid kind of people like my relative's husband (coz i know everything they do or will do he orders her not to tell!)
2. My relative is more stupid than him to agree to deprive her family from sharing her the good moments of happiness and completely idiot to marry such a guy..
3. I have never thought that this is a trend in some people to that aweful disgusting extreme!

Answer 6

Doesn't sound like he's the "best friend" you thought he was if he kept that kind of stuff from you... If I were getting married, I would want my best friend there... and to help me with the arrangements... If he married someone he knew you didn't like, maybe that's why...? How long has it been? Why haven't YOU contacted HIM before now? Sounds like you both kind of let go of the friendship.... If you want it to continue, talk to him... otherwise... let it be.

Answer 7

I lost my best friend because she married a guy that I didn't like at all!

He was arrogant, rude, and treated her like she was stupid and his servant. I didn't like him ever since I first met him, and when they got married I knew it was not going to be the same between us.

I feel for you because it sucks to lose your best friend. In my case we have only spoken about once a year for the past 8 years and we used to be so close. I miss her.

Answer 8

if u lost a friend easly then he wasn't ur best one or u thoungh he was and he didn't mind that
i had this experience once when i knew a friend and fastly i thought that she is the best from all and other friends i used to ignore them and their feelings but then the truth began to appear it was just an imagination she was an ordinary one and my true friend was showing this to me but i wasn't listening to her do u understand me ?
yala slam ya slah and don't mind about that u will see that there is another friend who is searching for u

Answer 9

Personally I have 2 red lines
1. if a friend lies to me
2. if a friend insults me

Usually I love my friends so much and I do my best to make the lives better, but I'm a total opposite when things go wrong.
To me , when they are gone, they are gone for good, and nothing can make me forgive them again.

Answer 10

i don't tend to lose friends easily...but everybody has a limit...and I've set the limit high because of what I've seen from ppl who stabbed me in the back....

i have two big "no no" in my friendship..lying and talking behind my back....
so i understand what you mean and am totally with you.....
all my friends that i lost was either she talked about me in bad behind my back...or she spelled out a secret....
but believe me every time a took a decision to lose a friend i cry my heart out...coz i got attached to ppl quickly....