(1) he likes transsexual porn
(2) he's been with a transsexual prostitute
(3) he's says he loves me; is not attracted to men; but
(4) he likes when I do him with a strap on
(5) he likes to dress up in drag
2007-08-21 00:05:53 · 13 answers · asked by whoareyou 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Are you describing me? No, this does not mean he is gay or bi. (Doesn't mean he isn't either) I am in love with a beautiful woman whom I will soon be marrying. I have done all of the above (Not been with a prostitute but have been with a transsexual)
I even sometimes fantasize about being with a man. This just means I am open sexually and like to explore, have no hang ups, am open with my feelings, etc. My gf even gets turned on when we fantasize together about sharing each other with another man. BUT neither one of us wants to do it in real life.
Don't worry. He may have had these feelings a long time and now that he has found someone he can trust (you) they may diminish (but not necessarily go away completely) over time.as some of the fantasies are played out.
2007-08-21 04:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by tamarack58 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is gay. I think he is a submissive transvestite and likes to feel he is a woman from time to time. this is why he likes transsexuals and transsexual porn as he is attracted to the idea of men who have actually become women. The strap on thing is a mixture of being like a woman and his submission to you. If you are going to stay with him you could explore his submissive side and see if you can develop it to increase his enjoyment of it and find some personal benefit for you. I know a number of submissive transvestites who make good housemaids for their wives
2007-08-21 08:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Erm, no not nessecarily. Transexual porn is quite well known to men who are straight and as for the strap ons, most men think it makes the women more horny*. Dressing up in a drag he may do for various reasons, to entertain you sexually, for fun or some other reason. As long as he is your boyfiend then dont worry :).
Hope this helps.
2007-08-21 07:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this will not sound "polite", but the best you can do to answer your question is the way that he makes love to you. Does he do it "comme il faut", that is, with passion, desire, and lust? Do you comfortable with him at those moments? If yes, everything is fine. If not... have an eye on him xD
2007-08-21 07:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Pablo L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say honestly "it depends".
How old is he? If he is under 30, he could still be searching for his sexual identity (like I did in my 20's).
If he is over 30 and the sex is good, I would say he's probably straight.
2007-08-21 08:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be bi...
It it's bugging you enough to break out numbers 1 to 5 then you should talk to him about it!
2007-08-21 07:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Troll Free Forum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he likes that stuff, no, i don't think it neccessarily (sp?) means he's gay. he just has a fetish. since he says he loves you and is not attracted to men AND since he's sharing this stuff with you, i think you don't have to worry, unless he's hurting other people.
2007-08-21 11:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Brian S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is gay as hell and you need to runin the other direction, he might does love you but in the long run he might hurt you so go head and leave him
2007-08-21 09:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by rainbow stud 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe not gay. he just likes to be a little kinky. the thing is do you love him and dose he make you happy.
2007-08-21 08:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite possible that he is straight, or he may be gay. Maybe he is bisexual. I think what matters is how he feels about YOU.
2007-08-21 07:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by thehaydster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋