hi.. I'm a bit shy of this, but I got no choice.. I really need help. I'm 25 years old, single and still a virgin. I have a boyfriend now. I'm just wondering why everytime he kissed me or even hold my hands, I am discharging a very clear and white something in my vagina. what is this? if I don't wear sanitary napkin or panty liner, it really goes through my pants and it got wet.. it really so shameful! I need a help from the expert.. This thing really bothers me a lot.. what should I do? is there any cure of this?
2007-08-20 21:43:31 · 11 answers · asked by confused 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
actually I don't wanna have sex until we get married, and he knows and respect about it. I'm just sick and tired of wearing sanitary napkin though I don't have menstraul period coz of that white something. My boyfriend doesn't have any idea about this burden of mine.. :( and I don;t have any plan to let him know..so disgusting..
anyway, is there anything i can do to stop or at least minimize this one? I don't wanna have wet pants after kissing.. :(
2007-08-21 13:32:48 · update #1
Dont worry, its quite normal, ur body is getting ready for sex. its a healthy sign. ur intercourse will be painless
2007-08-28 20:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal.The clear liquid is actually the lubricant for future love making.Kissing and holding hands in a romatic way is a foreplay.Foreplay helps to reduce the friction which will occur during sex.You are actually being aroused by your bf.Actually its the respond your body gives.Your body thinks that you might gonna have sex.So your body is preparing for it.Thats all.Dont worry.
2007-08-20 21:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by sugarNspice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you are experiencing is totally normal. When you are aroused sexually, your vagina becomes wet in preparation for sexual intercourse. Its similar to a male getting an erection, though much more discrete.
I would recommend wearing a pantyliner to catch some of the moistness. Don't worry, its totally normal!
2007-08-28 18:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because you are aroused by him. totally normal.
well done for saving yourself for this long. there aren't many people who can say they truly saved themselves for the person they love.
no matter how old or young you are the same rules apply, never do anything your uncomfortable with and only give it up if it's really what you want and only when your ready. not whenever he is.
all the best with the new relationship!
2007-08-21 00:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a joke, you're a very sad individual.
If not the answer is you are aroused by this man, and basically your body is lubricating itself for lovemaking. BTW it's totally normal.
2007-08-20 21:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by Lou K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe its natural,.. because your body is aroused,...you may see a doctor about this for futher information about that behaviour of your body,..don't be shy to ask its for your health and for you to lessen your worries..:) i hope that you can find remedy or solution on your problem good luck!!
2007-08-28 18:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by meya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer given by the ladies are univocal and belief in it. You appear to be dangerously naive.
2007-08-21 00:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is your self lubrication which is telling you that you are ready for sex if you want to do it.
2007-08-20 22:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means your horny and you body is wanting to have sex with him. completely normal
2007-08-20 22:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by Calum's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have talked to many friends about things like this and it has to do with the fact that his touch is stimulating your hormones which is also causing this discharge. I would recommend discussing this issue with your doctor as well to see what they say.
2007-08-20 21:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by sokokl 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋