I have some very intense feelings at times that I 'should' be female. It's as though doing feminine things feels 'right'. As an example I'll get the intense urge to wear a pair of high heels or paint my fingernails, etc and do it. It feels so wonderful at first but after a bit I begin to feel guilty and start to undo whatever I did. It's to the point that I don't know what to do. The other things is I am not attracted to men in any sense. Being intimate with women is wonderful and I don't want to give that up. Thoughts?
BTW...rude and nasty answers get reported!
2007-08-20 18:52:35 · 6 answers · asked by bronzegod4ever 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think that you have an urge to be a cross dresser. I don't think its wrong or bad and it definitely does not mean you are gay! I think you owe it to yourself to explore this side of you so you can decide whether you really like it or not. Why can't men be free to explore their feminine sides without the scrutiny of others. There are even women who enjoy cross dressing men and role reversal you never know you just may spice up your love life!
2007-08-20 19:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by thickwitit1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, to be honest, you need to feel comfortable with yourself. Perhaps some of the latent guilt is programmed from societies ideas of what or who men and women are and how they should act. I'm a butch gay man and even I like the idea of being feminine at times. However, I would look pretty silly wearing a teddy or something based on societal opinions. You are the only person that determine what is "right" for you... no one else. :-)
2007-08-20 19:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe (not trying to be rude caz I hate it when people give me rude and hurting answers) you have this illness. I forgot what it's called but it's where a person acks alot like their oppisit sex and fells the urge to be the other sex. It's some kind of mental ilness. You should go to a doctor to see if thats the case.
2007-08-20 19:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a straight transvestite before. I believe that sexuality is on a continuum, not either/or
2007-08-20 19:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably just a crossdresser.
2007-08-20 19:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get these urges cause you love the cock
2007-08-20 19:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by ernie o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋