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what is the FIRST SIGN that it's GONE already.....?

2007-08-20 17:14:07 · 36 answers · asked by enki 4 in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

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The first sign for me, was an immediate, overwhelming awareness that I'd known this person forever; that first smile WELCOMED me as an embrace from someone who had been long absent. Joy in mutual recognition. We fell hand in hand from that moment on in everything shared, thoughts unspoken but read; in step with every choice, insight & experience along the path. Treasuring even when briefly separated. This expanded & enriched EVERYTHING in my life. My enjoyment in music, creativity, nature, & people was heightened. Others saw the shining in me. I'd crossed, as through a delicate membrane into a more beautiful world. I can't answer the second question, as the love was/has never been "gone." This love will thrive forever in what "some" might consider eternal distance.

2007-08-20 19:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 7 0

The first sign of love is the feeling that you are not worth the other person. Then comes this wish to never ever hurt this person and then you wish to do something really great or heroic for this human being.
The first sign that it is gone is when you suddenly feel better then the other, and you do not care to hurt him or her and you start to mainly think on yourself not the other, then love is gone.

2007-08-20 19:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by I love you too! 6 · 1 0

It was feeling that I can't explain. I kissed him for the first time and something inside told me I had just fallen in love. It was the need to see him again and the feeling in my stomach when I did see him. I felt like a child inside and I knew that there was no other place I'd rather be than with him.

the sign it was gone was reminiscing about the day I fell in love with him and wishing we could go back to those days. We grew apart, our lives took other directions. Our hearts grew differently and then we both know it was gone.

I think for each person it's different. I don't believe there is one answer for this question. It's something everyone experiences differently.

2007-08-21 03:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by paz 4 · 1 0

The first sign of love can be infatuation - or aggravation! Been there. If it develops to love, you know you've caught it because you care at least as much for the other as for yourself (and probably more). The first sign it's gone is when you find you're inclined to be defensive, or fight for your own corner, unable to put a problem on the table between you and discuss it with mutual care for each other. Three strikes, and it's best to go - unless you want to try counseling!

2007-08-21 00:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4 0

hi enki i miss u sooooooooo much
ok the FIRST SIGN of LOVE..............
it isn't actually a sign but also i sign,i will say that all the love signs get weakened as time move but it decreases slowly or very slowly then rise again but also not like the first time then decease again and so on
WHAT AM I SAYING????????I DONT KNOW
ok here is the direct answer.
the FIRST SIGN of LOVE that it's already GONE is the most powerful lovly feelings u carry in the FIRST MEETING

2007-08-20 21:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Adham 1910 4 · 1 0

Once you've gone beyond the butterflies in the tummy, sweaty palms, constant hormonal upheavals, and stammering for a lack of coherent speech stage of "being IN LOVE", and you settle down to the "knowledge" that you simply cannot exist another second without being close to that ONE person . . . you probably can be damned sure that its LOVE.
When all the bubbles have burst, you see the warts, wrinkles and cellulite or bulging stomach for real, and have become disillusioned by that "dream person", and quite frankly cannot stand the sight of him/her anymore to the point of becoming nauseous, the the "writing is on the wall" so to speak. The end is nigh! Love has left the premises and has gone in search of greener pastures . . . So long - and thanks for all the fish . . . Ciao. Cheerio. Goodbye!

2007-08-22 05:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

What are the first Sign of Love? when you meet someone that you find irresistible, and you can't stand not being around where she is, is when you feel like the World seems prettier and you are feeling happy for no reason is when you wish you could be with that person, for always and there is no one else like her in all the World. But, through the passing of time, you find yourself, feeling like she was not what you thought she was, than I would say that what you were feelings for her was infatuation, and nothing else, because when you meet the person you want to be with through all eternity, that feeling will sustain you until God separates you from her.

2007-08-21 10:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 2 0

Speaking, rather, about intense infatuation that is referred to as love:

First sign: feeling great and certain you've never felt that
way before (and/or that no one else has ever felt the way you do).

First sign it's gone: when you are with them, you start thinking of the things you want to do when they go somewhere else.

As a disclaimer, I must say that the above description can refer to the way you feel about your long-term spouse, except then you are on plane that transcends the heart's whims.

2007-08-20 19:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

First sign of love: Constantly checking if your phone is working.

First sign that it's gone: Forgot to call.

2007-08-25 16:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0 0

Hi Enki,
You will know you have found love.. because, you won't have to ask... It will be that clear to you that it is different than infatuation, crushes, and lust...
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Too often, love is just the feeling you get... when a person you admire returns your attention....
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First signs : *When you can't keep your mind on nothing else...
You would trade the world for that person... If the person is bad, you can't see it.....the person can do no wrong...
You turn your back on your best friend, if they put the person..down*....
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A deeper love comes only.. after you have known each other a long time, and explored yours histories, likes , dislikes and plans for the future... Your hopes, dreams and plans should be compatible, realistic and shared... You know you make a good team... Common interests... and similar values ..
Spiritual, and emotional become : one...
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Physical love.. and attraction, are fast to heat up... and fast to cool down... They are the least reliable predictors... of when you are REALLY in love....
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Thanks, for the question! :)

My regards!

Take care!

2007-08-21 14:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by Kimberly 6 · 4 1

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