I have 3 children, ages 5, 7, and 9, and recently i've decided to start using spanking as a method of discipline. I live in the U.S., can i get in trouble with the law for spanking?
2007-08-20 16:56:20 · 8 answers · asked by VITCH 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Spanking is perfectly legal in the U.S., as long as it doesn't leave any bruises, welts, or other marks. If it leaves redness, it usually isn't considered abuse, though. The laws probably vary from state to state, of course. There is a common misconception that spanking with implements such as paddles, spoons, switches, hairbrushes, etc. is illegal, as far as i know it's legal.
2007-08-21 16:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by FMEXICO 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spanking with an open hand is legal. Using a belt, spoon or paddle can be considered child abuse.
Before you spank, though you need to remain calm. Repeated uncontrolled blows is considered abuse. Also, constant spanking (for every little thing) is considered abuse; so use it sparingly.
Spanking might not be the best punishment, but if it is the only one that corrects their behavior, then use it.
2007-08-20 17:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin k 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every state has it's own laws. The law here in Colorado (and most states have similar laws from what I understand) is that you can spank the child as long as you do not leave any bruises, welts, or anything like that. The law allows for "transitional redness of the child's buttocks area" but any actual marks is considered abuse.
2007-08-21 00:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure hope not, or I'm off to jail soon. Spanking sometimes is THE only thing that works on my kids, ages 3, 4 1/2, and 6.
Good luck!
2007-08-20 17:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is legal, but your kids are a little to old to just be starting. They should have been spanked starting at age 2 and you would have them under control by now.
2007-08-20 18:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spanking with and open hand on the buttocks is not illegal as long as its over clothing.
Fist, kicking, pushing, belts, slapping or throwing shoes/objects could be considered physical abuse. Anytime there is a mark left it will be considered physical abuse as well.
We have taken many kids from their parents who have been spanked with spoons shoes or any other objects. Like I said any bruise or mark is considered physical abuse.
2007-08-20 17:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by B D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im pretty sure that spanking is legal as long as it doesnt leave marks...cause my aunt got her kids taken away from her because she spanked her son so hard that it bruised his bottom....ouch. my mom still threatens to spank me...i think its kinda funny.
2007-08-20 17:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by raychle37 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as it doesnt has a scar, i guess, regardless dont do it too
often, otherwise it will also become ineffective.
2007-08-20 17:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by sk1295 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋