I pretend to have money to impress women over the internet. I also misrepresent my financial status to women in the real world. How do I stop lying? They eventually will find out im a fraud
2007-08-20 16:18:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
The key answer is to stop all communication with ladies of the Internet. Get outside and meet someone .
GRams
2007-08-20 16:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a psychiatrist - pathological lying is symptomatic of deeper mental disorders. Your family physician should be able to point you in the right direction. If there is nothing the shrink can do, then you should probably be getting some 'talk therapy' from a psychologist who has experience dealing with patients such as yourself.
Good luck.
2007-08-20 16:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let's say you keep up the fraud. Who says you have to spend any of this "money" you have on these women you are trying to impress?
The best thing to do is to say, "I'm not comfortable discussing money," and they should respect your privacy.
Now if you have a date, and she wants to go somewhere expensive, here's an idea:
Take her to the airport and buy her a hotdog. That's expensive!
2007-08-20 16:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by Rainbow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way is to find a way to truly respect your real life. If you cannot, there are surprisingly easy and affordable ways to educate and/or improve your path. Goals are like gold in your pocket. Anything is possible and you can make yourself be what you fantasize to women. You CAN
2007-08-20 16:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, strength can impress women. But if a guy is too strong (like a bodybuilder) it can be scary and intimidating.
2016-03-18 00:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to find real love, you just need to stop. maybe you should go on a dating site, tell the truth, and see what kind of woman would be attracted to the real you. even if you don't want to do internet dating, you could still see that women will like you for YOU, and you could get the self esteem to stop lying.
2007-08-20 16:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by andrea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must have an incredibly poor self image to feel the need to lie about who and what you are. Suggest that you will never gain self respect or confidence by doing so. And no one will ever have respect for, or confidence in you, because yes, the truth always surfaces.
You might consider therapy.
2007-08-20 16:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is your personality that bad that you have to lie to gold diggers? come on bro im sure thats not true just tell em straight up who you are im sure you will find what ever your looking for.....and if you cant stop start buying lotto tickets
2007-08-20 16:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop u even said it urself they will find out anyway n tht just dissapoints a girl n makes her mad dnt try to impress her just b yourself
2007-08-20 16:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're in the real world: get real!
2007-08-20 16:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by kayneriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋