Losing interest...?
in my sex life and relationship. I have two kids (2 yr old & 5 mos old) and a wonderful fiance... what can I do to respark the flame within me? I need to capture that drive I once admired ... the one that helped me appreciate my body (as beautiful and athletic as it truly is)... mind and spirit. Lack of sleep and good luck has come my way. Please bring inspiration by lending your opinion and ideas.
2007-08-20 16:12:45 · 6 answers · asked by reincarnated/beauty 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Have you tried a makeover??
Go to a salon and get a different hair style,maybe a different hair color!!!
A different look will make you feel fresh and ready.
Or you could always bring some new ideas to bed such as toys and stuff(only if you guys are into that).
Have fun!
Get some new sexy panties also...
Good luck!
2007-08-20 16:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain-I have a 2 year old and a 4 month old and I feel like my hubby and I only talk about the kids. And even then it is like whose turn is it to (change the diaper, feed the baby, do the laundry...). My advice would be try to get a little time to yourself without either baby to do something you like. I actually go grocery shopping alone and that is enough to recharge me a little. Also get a haircut or a manicure or buy some nice panties and a bra that is sexy, or read a book that isn't about babies, anything that will make you feel like a woman not just a Mommy. Try not to be too hard on yourself, this too shall pass! Enjoy being a Mom and I think everything will fall into place. Good luck!
2007-08-20 23:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Laura H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very normal, you have no time for yourself, much less your libido. If daddy wants some loving he needs to make sure you get some "me" time, take a bath, nap, just be an adult. You lose touch with your womanhood while you chase babies all day. Start settind date nights, one a week, once a month, whatever works for your family. Even if you just get an hour or two alone it will help refresh your relaltionship.
2007-08-20 23:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that because u r so tired.. i am a mum of 9 mo
and i am a fulltime mom, with no one else to help
it makes me has no more energy for myself n for my husband
good thing, he understand me ..
but i know should something to be done here... but for now, i prefer to just have a good sleep when i have spare time
2007-08-21 00:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by lucky_1179 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all in your mind. He needs to spend more time
on you, play a little, seduction, be romantic (TRY!) don't keep the same routine.
2007-08-21 00:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by ST Dance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whips
chains
handcuffs
whipped cream
lots of condoms
and a babysitter
2007-08-21 01:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋