My friend and I are really close but lately she has been interested in like odd things. ( lesbians, sex, gays,ect.)
When she tlks to me I feel really weird so I tell her to plz stop tlkin about it.
But recently she has been on a chat room n has been asking for lesbians that would b interested in her, then she went to me!
What should I do? Plz help me!!!
2007-08-20 16:08:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
"Kick her in the nuts" quote eric cartman
2007-08-20 16:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Richard L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she may be questioning her sexuality. She needs you as a friend now more than ever, so I recommend you don't abandon her.
If you feel she is coming on to you, and you don't feel that way about her, be upfront about it and tell her that you're flattered but you really only like her as a friend. There is no reason you should stop being her friend.
It may be a bit uncomfortable for you at first, but you could really help her out by just listening to her, and letting her get her feelings out in the open.
Hope this helps. Good Luck.
2007-08-20 23:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am surprised...a woman asked the same question but from the angel of the women you mention as your friend.....
she was upset why after advances and having sex a couple of times you left her in the lurch and had another girl friend....
why don't you decide your problem at home, rather than washing your dirty bra in the LGBT.....
2007-08-20 23:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by cutechick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes gay, maybe you should encourage her to talk more directly about it and encourage her to come out . Tell her you are straight though.
2007-08-20 23:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Renesme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a really good friend that is bi and that has never changed our relationship. She knows that I'm not into that, and she is cool w/it. If she is you real friend you should be able to talk to her about it!
2007-08-20 23:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk with her. Tell her how you feel. Tell her that you feel uncomfortable when she talks about it. You can choose to be friends with her or not. It is up to you.
Good luck on this.
2007-08-20 23:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by C007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend will respect your boundaries. Simply share with her your boundaries in detail. If she doesn't respect them, would that really be a good friend?
2007-08-20 23:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by Robert 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
make it clear to her that you are straight and don't wish to discuss anything to do with the lifestyle she is entertaining...you can be friends with whoever you choose and if she continues, then tell her you can't be her friend...she should respect your wishes same as you respect hers...
2007-08-20 23:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by PatsyAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ur straight if u are and tell her to stay away from thoughts like that if u are to continue to become firends
2007-08-20 23:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her nicely that your flattered but your straight, if she still preasures you tell her to back off
2007-08-20 23:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by ashif_noohu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋