we are both minors and i am 2 years older than her. I love her soooo much but she took a pregnancy test and it was possitive! her parrents woulnt let me see her after she went to the doctor to confirm it. i want to be with her and the baby! what do i do? i tried to talk to them but they woulnt listen. i cant let her go through this pregnancy and not have the support she need that her parents cant give her. i just was banned from seeing her 30 min. ago . please help me! i really want to see her and be there fo her through the pregnancy and labor . also i want to help her raise the baby
2007-08-20 16:07:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am 15 and Sarah is 13
2007-08-20 16:15:16 · update #1
Richy, how old are you both? Are you able to provide for her and the baby? It's commendable that you want to participate with her during the pregnancy and are not running away from your responsibilities, but Mom and Dad have every right to ban you right now. You have to prove somehow that you are responsible and will do what it takes to take care of her and baby! Good luck, Hon, I am praying that all goes well for you, her and baby.
2007-08-20 16:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sgt Little Keefe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We don't know for sure what you mean exactly by "minors" but honestly, if it were my daughter I wouldn't be letting you anywhere near her at this point either. I would be very angry, very disappointed, and grieving for her for reasons that you may not fully comprehend at your age. Being an adult who has had children, I know what she's in for. I've spent time with several teen mothers, and she's in for quite a year.
I know you care about her and want to be with her, but for now, you're going to have to give her family the time to work through the initial phases of this. She also has some big descisions as to whether she will be raising the baby herself or not. You should be thinking about how exactly you are going to help her if you are welcomed back into her life in time to be of help.
I would suggest that you try to find a pregnancy councelling center near your home. There are some like Birthright or others that will give free counceling. I would suggest you yourself go in and see if there is someone there you can talk to about what to expect, what will happen and how to work through the feelings you have about this pregnancy.
2007-08-20 23:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by average_american_superhero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really commend you Richy for wanting to be such a young, good father. I agree with Sporker at this point. Write a letter. They will realize that you are this baby's father and they have to let you in and your parents in because whether they want to admit it or not, your parents are this child's grandparents. When it comes to a child, it needs ALL the help it can get from anybody that's willing to love it. I have a 7 1/2 month old. Milk and pampers are going to crush you. You too young to get a job. Show her parents and your parents that you can be responsible until you get a job and just let them know that mistakes happen. Find any way you can to get in touch with Sarah. I know she knows you love her. You two will be okay and so will that baby. If they really keep on trying to keep you away from your child, you ain't too young to have your parents take it to court. No chld should be taken away from its parents, especially if the parents love it.
2007-08-21 09:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness what are we gonna do with you young ones but at least you are willing to take responsibility for your actions!, I really dont know what to say, i think you need to tell your parents if you havent already and try to get them to talk to her parents, because they clearly arent gonna want to talk to you. I would be careful though because her parents might want her to have an abortion because she is so young! Just tell your parents thats really your only option at the moment.
I hope everything goes well and you get to be there for your baby but TELL your parents! they are the only ones that might be able to help!
2007-08-20 23:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep working at it... You are that baby's father and you deserve to be there... Do understand the frustration of the parets.. I would be very upset if my daughter was 13 and pregnant....... Good luck and I will pray for you and your little soon to be family...
2007-08-20 23:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by They call me 'Mom' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I commend you for your willingss to be there for your girlfriend and your baby. Your best bet is to sit your parents down and explain this to them in a calm and adult manner. They may just need time to cool off. But explain to themthat it is not fair to this baby to not have a father especialy when you are willing to be there. Good luck.
2007-08-20 23:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an amazing boyfriend. Just...write them a letter. They have to read it. Say you want to take responsibility for your actions, and that you love and want to support their daughter.
2007-08-20 23:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by sporker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why have a child at a young age u still got school to go to and things to do while being a teen. Wow ur a dumbass.
2007-08-20 23:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by timothy_yeav 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
her parents are likely blaming you right now, and want to protect their daughter. As the pregnancy pregresses they will comearound, especally if you show maturity and patience. Give it time.
2007-08-20 23:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are much to young to be having sex next time give the world a favor and keep it in your pants.
2007-08-20 23:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by momma 2 Sydney 9-8-09 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋