The question has been eating away at me for months. I definately know I am attracted to girls. But, I do not know if I am attracted to guys. I mean, its not like I would try to show off to the guys my body or anything, but sometimes, but sometimes I wanna just give them a hug NOT KISSES, and I want to hang out with them, but I dont want to touch them or anything.
2007-08-20 13:49:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are if that's how you choose to define your life.
2007-08-20 13:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Homerun king rules! Ok that being said, here in America physical bonding between two men is frowned upon and seen as relating to homosexuality. Not so in the rest of the world. Based upon your description, what you want to share is that bond. You want to let some guy know that you like him by giving him a hug. Should be nothing wrong with that, right? Sadly, guys here think that's gay. I say go ahead and do it. My best friend in high school used to give me flowers on opening night of my plays. Guys don't do that for other guys. But because he was considered such a str8 guy, everyone just thought he was being a good friend. As long as you let the guys know that you aren't into them, they should be okay with it. Heck, football players slap each other on the butt.
2007-08-20 14:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by realangst 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to have sex with men? Yes, you are bi. No, you are straight. If no, I think you might be lacking love from men (parents divorced and dad lives far away?) and you are trying to fill that void with male companionship that includes tenderness.
2007-08-20 16:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gay dude, their is no reason to want to hug another dude unless its your dad or brother and you going off to war that is the only way, and there is no such thing as a bi-sexual male either if your with a guy in anyway shape or form your gay i don't care if you liked it or not
2007-08-20 14:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm..hugging a guy in this society is well sort of creepy but its defintley not gay. if you said you wanted to sleep with or kiss other men then id say your bi.
2007-08-20 14:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not bi unless you want sex with them. Hugging another guy is normal especially if they are a real good friend
2007-08-20 16:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lack fellow male affection. Nothing you've described has implied anything sexual. Get yourself a straight touchy feely affectionate male friend and hug away...
2007-08-20 14:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by boxjellÿ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Based on the information you have given, I would say no.
2007-08-20 13:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say no...and if you meet one guy and you want to kiss him...then i still wouldnt think so..but if you meet yet another guy that you like..i would say you are bi...i have that question myself but everyone keeps saying it is too early to tell....
2007-08-20 13:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by bisexualgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you like guys then that means your Straight GAY!!! but it dont matter
2007-08-20 14:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by inasmithy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋