I have this HUGE crush on this guy from my church, and since I only see him once or twice a week, I miss seeing him, hearing his voice, and just taking it all in. Any ideas on how I can hear his voice or see him more or something to help what I call my 'deprivation'? I cant call him 'cause caller I. D. would ruin it all. And I cant find a picture. (I've been searching for months!) I know I sound obsessed, but thats cuz I am! I miss him soooo much! good answers much appreciated.
2007-08-20 12:29:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay..It sounds like you never talk to him. Talking would certainly help. You might find out you just like his looks, which is really shallow. Become friends.
2007-08-20 13:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by booty boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want this guy you should approach him and start dropping hints, especially since it is at church and he might feel bad about the idea of hitting on other women there, or even talking to ones he is not familiar with. So, try to talk about things you are planning to do that week and drop hints that having a friend along would be helpful. Go for it!
If you are hoping the crush will pass, it probably will, since the less often you see someone, the easier it passes. But otherwise take it to the next level.
2007-08-28 09:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 23:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by shenk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well theres always AIM ( Instant Messaging) or planning dates like going to the movies or something simple like that. All you would have to say to your parents is that your going to the movies with some friends. Or he could just get a cell phone. And just ask him for a picture the next time ya meet him. There are a lot more ways! I'm sure you'll find some good ones! Best of luck!!!
2007-08-20 12:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by Glarffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem several times! Look at it like this any habit can be broken in 21 days..well most.So dont search for him, talk about him, or go out of your way to find his pics. Just grin and bare it for 21 days it gets easier each day...besides if it was a mutual thing he would have been calling you. Sounds harsh but i've been there I know.
I wish you the best
2007-08-28 11:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jordan! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him...does he have a girlfriend? Ask him casually if he wants to hang out sometime...does he even know you like him? Do you like photography? Maybe you could ask him for help on a photo project you could do...you two could go out and take some pics at cool places around town...who knows....??? Love could be in the air. But...if not, take it slow....don't act too nervous or giggly around him...but talk to him...see where the relationship goes...if it doesn't...maybe it wasn't meant to be...there are sooooo many guys in this world....pray about it. If God wills it...it will happen...good luck sweetie
2007-08-27 18:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention ages. Surely your church has youth activities to go to, where you could at the very least, start talking to the guy.
Besides shouldn't your focus be on worshipping the Lord and not on who you can see there?
2007-08-27 04:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by hugskisses4707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
logically what turns u on?
i mean there should be something that makes u crush on him and honestly mostly guys i know are scared of obsession gals.
maybe u could cool off ur attention a bit by diverting ur attention
2007-08-26 17:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by chocolate929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a camera and take on e of him go up to him when friend is with him and say i wold like to take pciture sure he would be ok with it but you know its not normal to do this. it could get out and then someone would tease you why not just find someone who would like you for yourself and there is no guessing.
2007-08-27 14:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you don't even know him at all!
2007-08-27 09:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by happy@50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋