... play with the toy I bought her?
2007-08-20 10:36:04 · 12 answers · asked by RM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wake her up with you providing a "demonstration of use" on her.
2007-08-20 10:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't *make* women try or like sexual things they are not interested in, sport. And you certainly can't go buying them dildos as surprise gifts.
Try *asking* her - "Hey, you know I was kicking around this idea about what would I think would be fun to try in bed ---not every time -- would be bringing a LITTLE toy into bed. Not a 3 foot mule gagger, but a - you know - me sized one. Is that something you might not have thought about but think could be kind of fun to try?"
If she wrinkles up her nose like you just taped a fresh cat turd under it and goes "ewwwWWWWwww gross you perv" then forget about it. it will never happen for you and you are doomed to 4 minutes of missionary and no bl*wjobs from her for the duration.
But if she shows some interest, then say "well heck i am no expert but let's figure out where to shop for one and go pick it out together! then we'll try it out!"
dang man - do you have to be led through this step by step? :-)
2007-08-20 10:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by salacious_crumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce the new toy slowly If she dosent accept at first gradually start introducing new things at a slower pace. She might be embarrassed given time she might lose some inhibitions
2007-08-20 10:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by wenchly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
plan a nice evening...end it in the bedroom..place a scarf over her eyes..get her in the mood & before any1 takes off any clothes..tell her to give u a second-grab the toy..& slowly start playing with it..things should come natural to you after that..good luck..
2007-08-20 11:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by resolucion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's not always about getting her to play with it but more about you showing her what it can do to her. Remember, if the woman is uncomfortable at first then just ease it up little by little and see what she thinks. Good Luck
2007-08-20 10:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by ediabullo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
r u kidding
what kind of toys u buy for her ?
2007-08-20 21:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by 1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would use it during sex. That way she gets comfortable with it, and doesnt see it as a bad thing. She might not ever want to use it on herself with you not there, but that is ok. Just use it, and enjoy it during sex. Makes it more fun!
2007-08-20 11:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you start on her, and she'll take over. If she's really into the moment, she won't resist. If she feels silly, she's not comfortable.
2007-08-20 10:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by ron-D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ocnvince to play with it
2007-08-20 10:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her or help her, I prefer to help and gets them comfortable in using.
2007-08-20 10:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋