why there is always conflict between mother n law and daughter in law?

Answer 1

i think there is jealousy on both end.. the mom is scared that you will take her son love from her and make it where he will not come around as often and the wife is scared because the mom has been in his life all along and will come first.. some times people have a hard time understanding that the heart is big enough to love other people and not lose the love they already have for someone else

Answer 2

I have never gotten along with my mother in laws. This time I thought I had lucked out. She seemed really nice and sincere, then all of a sudden it changed. See, she had controlled my husbands life before we got married. Then I let her know that I wouldn't stand for her to manipulate him and try to control him. So now she has no use for my husband or me. I think in most situations where there is conflict, it's because in the mother's eyes no one is going to be god enough for their son. Same as when the daughter gets married and the dad feels there is no guy good enough for her. But what it comes down to is the parents should feel proud that they have raised a person who is so great that someone else wants to spend the rest of their life with them.
When I become a mother in law, I pray that I treat them well!!!!

Answer 3

There isn't ALWAYS conflict between mother in law and daughter in law. I have always gotten along with my now ex mother in law...still do.

Answer 4

I have never had any conflict with my mother-in-law. In fact, when my husband told his parents that he had asked me for a divorce, my mother-in-law looked at me and told me that I did nothing wrong, that the upcoming divorce is his fault.

Answer 5

There doesn't have to be. First, do you like your mother-in-law?

If you do, invite her somewhere she's interested in i.e, the mall, gallery, for a walk. Send her a funny comic and tell her it reminded you of her. Do a little something for her once a week. She'll soften.

If you don't like her, try to find something about her you do like and focus on that when you're together. Your hubby will appreciate it.

If she's impossible, pray daily for intervening. Good luck!!!

Answer 6

There isn't always.

I LOVE my soon to be mother in law, and she has told me herself that I am her favorite out of her other 2 sons girlfriends.

She's an awesome person.

Some mothers are over protective though and don't want to see their babies grow up and live their lives without them, and they think their kids won't need them anymore which makes them upset with the person who is "taking them away"

Answer 7

U ought to be somewhat psychologically symapathetic in direction of her. She has given delivery to ur husband, reared him up, taken the can charge of the entire kin & basically at the instant would have been enjoying finished freedom contained in the residing house front. Now u r an outsider, in spite of the shown fact that intense high quality she could be, she will sense this danger subconsciously. supply her this sense that u r no longer an outsider atall, take her out of this concern, this sense of inseurity, make urself and herself understand and sense that u R a youthful member than her and u can not at all replace her place. that doesn't propose u'll lay down on floor, if u locate smthing too illogical or impossible to stick to, shop mum yet dodge doing it. sometimes she would ask u to do such issues just to verify ur attitude in direction of her or examine ur staying power. yet SHE is not any VILLAIN, NOR U, basically victims OF THIS SOCIAL shape. that's ALL.

Answer 8

It could be that the son has yet to cut the cord from his mother. The wife shouldn't have to compete with her mother-in-law for her husbands affection.

Answer 9

I don't know, I've always gotten along with my mother in-laws, as well as my stepmother in-laws.

Answer 10

Most of the time.