mastrabate for him. We have toys and he will use them on me and i will use them on myself when he is not around but I can't seem to bring myself to do it in front of him. we have been together for over 8 years and i still don't want to. is that wrong of me??
2007-08-20 09:59:08 · 20 answers · asked by jocln312 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Short answer?
5 martinis.
Courage in a bottle, baby.
2007-08-20 11:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how and why would you be marriedd to a man you did not feel comfortable in sexual situations with? I really don't understand that, I have been married happily for 18 years now and with the same women for close to 25 years now, and the only way I could see this working is the fact that when it comes to sex she is as big a freak as I am, we enjoy the same things sexually, If you ask most divorced people why the got divorced the number one reason is no sex, or bad sex, why do women marrie men the really don't like having sex with? or they think things will change once your married, they don't if you don't like sucking before your married, a marriage license in not going to all of the sudden make you like it. this is just the tip of the iceberg, I don't think anyone should be made to do anything they don't want to do, so if you don't want to masturbate in front of your husband then don't do it, you won't enjoy it and he'll be able to tell and it will just turn into one of theses acquired moments that we just kind of wish never happened, but you should be concerned about this because I can tell you he really wants you to do more than just masturbate in front of him, this is just what he mustered up the courage to bring up, he is trying to open up Pandora's box!! you should talk to him about your sexxx life and try and find some middle ground!!
2007-08-20 10:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong of you but it's also not wrong for him to ask. Maybe you would feel better if you both mastrabate at the same time.
2007-08-20 10:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by Spring 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This I cannot understand. I am a man though so that kind of skews the answer, but I think you should. Make it a challenge and a whole performance. You can control everything. Hell, tie him up and don't let him touch you or himself while you do it. I believe it is also good for a man to know that his woman can satisfy her own needs because then it ups the stakes on why they need us. I can only hope for both yours and his sake that you decide to do it, open up to it and really enjoy it.
2007-08-20 10:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by No one 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some reason most men enjoy watch a woman touch herself....But it seems you feel embarrassed to touch your self in front of him..Best I can say is do not do anything you don't feel comfortable, plus talk to him some about it and let him know the way you feel.
2007-08-20 10:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong of you but if you have a good relationship why would you not? Men are very visual and when you are having intercoarse he can't just watch. I will bet that if you do this for him he will reward you with the ride of your life
2007-08-20 10:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by Tater 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong at all, I was shy for over 6 yrs with my husband till he busted me and my bullet one day. (he didn't know I had sex toys) Once that was out of the way I found that masturbating infront of him brought this wild side out of both of us and I love it!!! You should try it and you will know what I mean.
2007-08-20 10:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong of you. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, then you shouldn't, but for some reason, guys really get off to seeing a woman masturbate.
2007-08-20 10:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put a blindfold on and some headphones, play some smooth music. Then have fun.
it really is a awesome sight if you can get beyond the embarrassment.
2007-08-20 10:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geeze, sometimes my wife does it while we are in the middle of love. That is HOT! Have you ever watched him masturbate? If not, ask him to. It just might turn YOU on.
2007-08-20 11:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by K M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋