ok tired of being loving caring and affectionate and giving him the world. found out it wasn't enuf. still wanted to *** around i mean he didn't have a chance cuz too scared or girls just ain't into but 100 percent sure he tried his best to get some from some blonde bimbo. he never appreciated what i did for him in life. so why shuld i continute to do the same thing he didn't care before so now i am not going to do **** for him it shuld still be the same rite. he thinks i cna't get none. i mean i get guys wanting to get to know me all the time and i tell them i am married they still pursue me. what shuld i do. divorce is not an option yet. can't tell why help what to do
2007-08-20 09:48:11 · 28 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you wanna cheat, here I am
2007-08-20 09:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Handsome Stranger 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well before you go a cheatin around there girly you need to really maybe stop and think about some counseling and if that doesn't work then get divorced. Counseling will help him see how he should be acting towards you and you will get the help to determine wether this marraige is going to work out. But you really need to be divorced before being with other men. Its not right really. Pretty slutty thing to do. well its not working so ill go cheat instead of do the right thing and get counseling with my husband or get divorced. Do you have any idea how many diseases are around now.
2007-08-20 09:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first. Let him know that it is a possibility unless you think he would become violent and hurt you. If that is the case then just get out of the relationship now, no matter what the consequences are. The old addage of two wrongs don't make a right applies here. If you are so upset that he did it (actually just maybe since you don't know) then why lower yourself to that standard. Is this attempt from your husband for sex only or were there emotions involved (does he love her too)?
2007-08-20 09:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you're pissed. And you want to cheat on him as a way of getting back at him. Usually something like this done in revenge isn't always good. It's totally up to you to do whatever you feel is right for you. Just don't make hasty decisions while you're angry.
And even if you cheat on him now, you probably are so upset and wild about him, that you may not even enjoy the fun of doing it. So, just wait up, let things chill a bit, and then give this another shot :-)
2007-08-20 09:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by this_big_one_is_4u 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If divorce is not an option then neither should cheating. I can tell by the way you worded your question that you are probably married to a little boy who is under the impression that he is some kind of gansta / rapper / pimp daddy player, you need to launch him, act like a lady and find a real man.
2007-08-20 11:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mc Fly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would divorce him seriously.......yeah you could cheat but do you really have all that time to play games..........you are a grown women..........love can't be that strong where you would put up with him cheating all the time.........just move on because if you cheat he just might no even care because it seems to me he don't care about you now......so in the end of it all. Your feelings will be hurt again....
so if you want to stay and play games then play.......are if you want to take that time that you was going to use too play games with and look for a real man....
if you know you deserve better move on.....If you don't stay a play
good luck
2007-08-20 10:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by Babygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey babe, calm down.
Sounds like you very angry.
What did he do to deserve that?
Taking you for granted? Yeah, I appreciate that he's not being too clever, but to want to cheat on him and not divorce him yet, either means that you hate him so much that you want to make him suffer, or you love him so much that you want to take the risk to hurt yourself to touch him deeply.
Ok, it might work, and it might not.
So, calm down and just deny him sex for a while, he will want to know if you're getting it somewhere else. That should hurt him enough, and he may want to talk.
Good luck.x
2007-08-20 10:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The basic truth is, any woman who wants to get laid can.
It can't be all that hard. Like you said you get hit on all the time.
Why he tried to get it from another woman is anyones guess but as it turned out he is just a scumbag not a cheater.
What possible benifit can you achieve from becoming a cheating whore yourself.
Maybe you should concentrate on your marriage and find out what is going on in each of your heads.
2007-08-20 10:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should cheat. Have you let him how you feel? Have you considered marriage counseling? Think before you cheat because you'll bring more problems into your marriage if you get caught. You said divorce is not an option who knows why, but if you're not happy and you strongly feel your husband won't change then divorce should take place.
2007-08-20 10:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you love your husband?search deep down inside your heart and ask yourself:do you really love your husband?think of all the good times you shared with him that made you want to marry him.
if you realize that you really love him, then don't cheat on him.you'll regret it.watch Jerry Springer or Maury show on channel 11 at 10:00 a.m. Monday-Friday.you'll see what those people have done and they all regret something that has to do with cheating.
2007-08-20 14:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by June 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your husband really that dumb? Does he not know that most women can get a different man to have sex with them every day? I'm not saying that's what you're going to do, but you can. How arrogant of him.
Hell, go for it. Don't wallow in the pain that he has caused you. When you are able to, get the divorce that you should get, and move on.
2007-08-20 09:55:11 · answer #11 · answered by ron-D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋