2007-08-20 09:34:30 · 40 answers · asked by Storyteller 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try to understand you partner and that its also not good feeling they have either they could be sick I went through this for 2 years and found out i was having alot of medical problems that had to be taking care of and then my sex drive came back once i was finally treated it took the doctors a while before they could find everything that was going on i was so happy i had a very good husband that understood also depression was one thing that was wrong stress can bring on alot as well i wish you the best but try to talk to your other and find out what is going on is it work stress medical thearpy is also another way to go best of luck
2007-08-20 10:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by fancy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well seeing that the male peak sex drive is at 18, and the female is early 40's, there really isn't much you can do short of creating your own personal release. Cheating is not a good choice, watching porn is a bad choice, going after someone on-line is illegal. That's leaves one with no other options, but to take care of business personally and privately in the comfort of their own home, after of course talking over the needs with their partner.If your partner is NOT having sexual relations with you, there is an underlying issue, which you probably are more then aware of. It is a good idea to address this issue with a professional counselor.
2007-08-20 09:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to know why the sex has stopped for your partner. There must be a reason. In the meantime you take care of your own physical needs. Nothing wrong with good old masturbation till u two come to some kind of understanding for what is going on
2007-08-20 09:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by chrissieanne1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take care of yourself in the shower?
Lowering the sex drive can be done by "starving the beast."
Some people think they have a "high sex drive" when, in reality, what they really have is a sex addiction.
Your partner isn't required to give you a "fix" whenever you feel the urge. You can't hide behind your "very high sex drive" to manipulate your partner into feeling guilty for not satisfying it. It isn't your partner's responsibility to meet your sexual demands.
It would be better for you to contact "www.sexaholicsanonymous" than to make a big deal out of it or cheat on your partner.
2007-08-20 09:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly i would talk to my partner & find out what the problem is. Know one just goes off sex for no reason. Then go from there, some couples are happy to go for an open relationship, or maybe your just not right for each other. Goodluck!
2007-08-20 09:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sugar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you think of her I expect, you have to accept that not all couples will have the same drive and accept it. You can't ask her to make an effort as that will put her off even more! (I'm assuming you are male). Make a fuss of her, take her out and buy her something special (not undies), the more you comment on it and push it the more you will put her off, try massages but with no sexual contact, she needs to know sex isn't everything and you want her for her not just for the orgasm!
2007-08-20 09:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner has a low sex drive and i have a high one so my partner bought me some toys to use so that i have no reason to stray
2007-08-20 23:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by spoonhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why you partner sex drive is gone. It coud be a medical condition. Open communication is the best thing.
2007-08-20 10:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Tracy J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you first need to find out the reason for your mate not wanting sex -- I have a high sex drive, so I'd personally, be miserable if that happened to me, and honesty, you can masturbate but only so much -- then it becomes a question of what you do to relieve yourself. . so before doing anything hasty I would exhaust all possible reason for it, then try to fix it if possible.. .if that doesn't work you and your mate need to have a serious talk, because we all have needs.
2007-08-20 09:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Cris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really have a heart to heart and find out the reasons for you partner not having the same type of drive or at least showing interest. If you don't talk about it you can't resolve it.
2007-08-20 09:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by !~!~Edward~!~! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋