I'm talking a pretty innocent crush that I would never ever act on. Any other marrieds have crushes?
2007-08-20 09:12:36 · 23 answers · asked by Morley 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think they are absolutely harmless and ok. It is simple evidence that you are human. When they can become not ok though is when you begin to defocus on your spouse because of them. Also we need to be as honest and open as we can with our husband's to be able to admit that we have a crush or interest in someone else. That takes all of the secrets or deceit out of the thing. There are many times I have said to my husband things like..." wow that guy really does it for me"...But ya know I will always love you honey :)
2007-08-20 11:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, everyone has crushes. It is natural to have a crush on someone. I am married and I have had many, and yes I have been completely faithful to my wife. I will not say that I would never act on one though. That is just setting yourself up. Be aware of the possibility at all times and be on the defensive to guard against it.
2007-08-20 09:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, people are judgemental. I'm married and I get little crushes once in a while. Of course I don't act on them, but your spouse is not the ONLY person in the entire world that you're going to be attracted to. Had you never been attracted to anyone before you met your spouse? It's human nature, and as long as you stay faithful, I don't see anything wrong with it!
2007-08-20 09:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married, cuz I'm still young, but I think there is nothing wrong with an innocent crush. Everyone has them married or not, they just don't admit them. My bf and I talk about our crushes on actors and singers. But ppl you know, keep those to yourself. As long as you don't act upon them, their is nothing wrong at all. [By the way, my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 yrs. (Sept. 23) and we have a gorgeous 6 mth. old son.]
2007-08-20 09:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jenel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crushes are ok, in my opinion. But it is also an open door to a world of trouble. Crushes come and go, just learn how to be responsible and never get carried away.
2007-08-20 09:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had crushes in the past its all innocent just dont ever act on them am married 26 years now nothing wrong with an innocent crush shows you are human
2007-08-20 09:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by chrissieanne1 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Weather they are o.k. or not they do happen and sometimes there is nothing you can do about it. However you can control how you react to the crush as long as you never act on your feelings than it should be harmless. In fact you should tell your husband about it, that way you do not feel like you are hiding anything from him
2007-08-20 09:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my wife has celebrity crushes, not anyone that I know of in our daily lives. The celebrity crush think don't bug me at all, but if it were someone that we knew, like a friend then that would bother me.....
2007-08-20 09:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crushes are fine as long as you do not act. Think of it as window shopping
2007-08-20 10:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by Tater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sigh... NO a crush is not ok when you're married, unless ur crushing on your spouse.. which I know is not the case.
Crushes turn into so much more, there is no such thing as an innocent crush. That is a justification. and a sad one at best.
2007-08-20 09:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋