Why am I so pathetic?? Help please?

Question

I want so bad to be good, but it's so hard and everytime i try and tell myself I'm going to be good I screw up again. CAn someone please help me?

Answer 1

You jus have to make a promise to yourself and stick with it....nothin is impossible as long as you put your mind n heart into somethin you'll be able to do it.....you have to make some rules for yourself and jus follow them

Answer 2

Don't be to tough on yourself, I know exactly what you're going through, I have felt like that many, many, times. I felt like giving up, I thought to myself, what am I doing, I'm just wasting time....

there will never be a time that you don't make mistakes, over time you gotta learn to just make better decisions. Don't let your emotions get the best of you because most of the time when they do you will make a bad choice, something dumb will happen.

Understand that you nor anyone is perfect, we all mess up in life. You gotta accept it, but never call yourself a loser or pathetic, you're a work in progress that's learning and taking time to develope, learn from whatever mistakes you've made and move on, I know with some hard work you'll be fine.

Answer 3

Life is about choices, and accepting personal responsibility.

Are you talking about low self esteem? Or being unfaithful? Or cheating on your diet? All would garner different responses.

But either way, you have the power to decide what kind of person YOU WANT TO BE. You need to discipline yourself, accept responsibility, and not play the "victim".

Focus on what you're doing "right", and chose one thing at a time to work on. Surround yourself with music, people, etc., that uplifts you, and gets you where you want to go. Avoid the things that tempt you to "be bad", whatever that means. Tell yourself that YOU ARE WORTH IT. YOU are WORTH being "good" and "Happy".

Hey, we all screw up sometimes. It's what we do NEXT that defines us.

Answer 4

Sounds like you are trying to spend all your time being miserable. Try consentrating on the good things. Plan where you want to be in a month, then make it happen. Be focused and attentive to details. This works on relationships, as well as business.

Answer 5

Try seeking out some professional help like clinical psychology and pray believe in something and start believing in yourself.

...tell the truth it feels so good to be bad.

Answer 6

I know exactly what you mean. Next time you feel like being bad..... ignore the voice that is telling you this and do the total opposite. You have to train your brain to ignore the negative messages. It's hard...........but the more you practice, the more focus you will be.

Answer 7

Quit beating yourself up. Everyone screws up. All the time. Its just the way life is. You need to learn to accept yourself. You will never be perfect enough to meet your expectations, so change your expectations.

You are fine just the way you are.

Answer 8

All you can be is yourself. Take a deep breath and think possitive. Good things happen to thoughs who wait. If in life we all make decisions. The decisions we make have two sides , but we are who we are and thats all we can be.

Answer 9

You are the only one who can control your actions and the subsequent consequences of those actions. Think things through before you do them and weigh the pros and cons of each decision before making it and you will make less mistakes.

Oh and i am sure that you are not pathetic.....everyone on this planet has done stupid things that they regret

Answer 10

How do u screw up it the question.