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Or Only after having a child or two? ( atleast a gal & a boy child) Or after having grandchildren?
Or simply after having a real affair?
Or By getting to Know what life really is by study, observation & Intuition?
Can any of us claim to be a Whole Person, for ThaT maTter?
Simply getting Curiouser & curiouser!
Drawing you too to to get curious, My Friends!
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2007-08-20 08:26:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
WOW! Tough quesTion.
I don'T Think someone else makes you feel whole I Think They can add aloT To your life making iT beTTer buT only you have The power To be a whole person on your own.
2007-08-20 08:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Tom....I have always been a whole person.....I feel a whole person is independent and doesn't need anyone else to help her in life....but when your married....you have some one to lean on and help you through the rough times....even though you could have done it yourself.....Having children is just a blessing on your life....if that is the thing that trips your trigger....some people do not want kids...and they can live a happy and fulfilling life.....grand kids are also one of those bonuses of life.......I have never carried for needy people...those are the ones that are not "whole"......good question Tom !!!!!
2007-08-20 17:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by missy b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in a way no, and in a way yes. The Bible says that man isn't meant to be alone. He needs a suitable partner to complete him. So according to scripture, man needs a partner (i.e. married) to be a whole person but yet people of many professions and faiths go through life single but still feel "whole" or "complete" so I believe it's all a matter of one's own opinion and feeling on the matter.
2007-08-20 16:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ohioguy95 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Married or not, we first have to know why and how we are fragmented before we become whole. Marriage is not always the answer. Maybe we want to paint or compose a piece of music or perhaps write a book to fill the void of the missing part in us.
2007-08-20 18:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's within the individual to decide. Being whole doesn't always mean the union of another person. First all you have to be whole yourself before you seek another person to be joined with. AfTer you find that person to live your union with its then that the idea of being whole plays the facTor. My idea is you have to love yourself before you can share part of yourself ...
2007-08-20 16:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel that my identity as a person depends upon others. It has to come from within myself. Depending upon others to validate my own sense of self-worth would be pathetic.
I will never have children. I'm not interested in that. The idea that someone has to have children to be a "whole" person is absurd.
I have had a very long-running relationship, and will eventually marry my girlfriend, but to suggest that she is not a "whole" person until she marries me is insulting. She has her own identity, as do I.
2007-08-20 15:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by solarius 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm a whole person, who just happens to be single.
I study, observe, and intuit (some) life.
2007-08-20 15:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person that you are. Some people need to have that. And it's ok. Not everyone is the same.
2007-08-20 15:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by sweetsnickers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can guess is you must be ready & they must be perfect for you (I'm still single & my last 3 gf's taught me what a bad marriage can be like-(I lived with one of them & it wasn't good-she wasn't the one to marry.)
2007-08-20 15:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't rely on other people to make you a "whole person." You must complete yourself.
2007-08-20 15:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by McLovin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋