First Marriage 7 years 4 children..Second Marriage no kids.. 7 years..Single 7 years and no Relationship.. Whats wrong with me?
2007-08-20 07:10:50 · 19 answers · asked by draw_maw_kween 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Probably nothing. You need to put yourself into situations where you can actually meet men, but not while you're looking. If you're feeling down in the dumps, get a new hairdo, a new outfit, a push-up bra and go out for night. You never know what's out there until you try.
2007-08-20 07:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Taj<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've been picking the wrong guys, that's what's wrong. Change your taste in men and you'll be a happier person. The 7's are only there to confuse you. You could have been married 6 years each, or 9 years. Doesn't matter. You're picking the wrong guys. That's the problem. Be glad you're single now. You need some time for personal growth.
2007-08-20 07:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will ONLY be possible if you find a man that is willing to put up with all that is necessary to be in a relationship with you. The problem is no man wants to support 4 kids that aren't his and all the drama that goes along with it. The kids won't really like him and he will have to work to pay for their needs. You may not be able to find a suitable husband until after the kids are grown and out of the house.
2007-08-20 07:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Julie H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, and yes it is possible. Just keep in mind it takes a special kind of man to take on 4 kids that are not his. But they are out there!!!
I know.... I have 5 kids, my hubby has 1 kid. We have been together 3 years now very happily married. You will find someone... don't rush it.... don't obsess over it. When it's meant to be it will happen.
2007-08-20 07:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Give yourself some time between relationships without dating at all, have you tried that? It works, get to know your self and your kids, and be happy with your own family. A partner will come to you when you least expect it, stop trying.
There is nothing wrong with you, you are just right!!
2007-08-20 07:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, I hope so. I may be able to let you know soon. But you're ok sis, maybe your being a bit more cautious these days. Maybe it's justified, you probably don't want to do another troublesome 7 right?
2007-08-20 07:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by duanehofner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would we know what is wrong with you? You haven't told us much except you are a two-time loser in the marriage department, and since the 2nd marriage failed you haven't dated.
I would say date but don't be in any hurry to get married in the future.
2007-08-20 07:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. Why does it have to be you. Why can't it be the other person or in your case persons. Maybe, because you have yet, to find true love, real love. Get right back out there, and keep trying. LOL
2007-08-20 07:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop dating and focus on your kids not your sex life. You dont' need a man to be happy and your kids are tired of the drama.
2007-08-20 07:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
their is nothing wrong with you maybe you just set your standards to low or to high or maybe you are letting your kids run your relationship just stop take a look and think am i running my life or is the kids running it for me
2007-08-20 07:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by candyapple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋