I am in fear of having a boring marriage life and I hate of being under control of a man---am I just being selfish?
I still love him and want to be w/him, but I can't help but to feel like this...
2007-08-20 07:06:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Just thinking of going by someone else's rules, besides mine, make me think twice.
2007-08-20 07:10:35 · update #1
just go with the flow lady...........
2007-08-20 07:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by secretservice 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pet peeve for leo woman: A tightwad date.
A leo womanin love gives her heart without reservations. Her romantic nature is intense, vital, and unhibited. She doesn't hold anything back, but by the same token she expects her chosen mate to be just as fervidas she is. Although Leo is a marveously sensual creature, kinky variations are not her game. She perfers to heighten and dramatize the familiar by her passionate iunvolvement. Leo woman thrives in marriage, but her partner may find living with her a bit overwhelming at times. It isn't easy being attendant to a queen, and Leo woman can be tyrannical. The worst scenario is when a Leo mwoman marries a man she can dominate completely. In this relationship she may get total submission,but that is too little compensation for the full, deep, robust kind of love she needs. When she feels shortchanged in love, Leo woman will turn bitter and carping.
2007-08-28 06:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Southern Cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a LEO and So is My Youngest Sister Both of us had Been Married or in a Relationship but it didn't work out and to this Day Both are still single while are other Siblings are Married and/or Have Kids of their Own, so My point being I need to say I want out of this Marriage Because Its Not Working out You are your own Woman You shouldn't be Controlled You Should be in Control of things, I'm sorry Your Husband Doesn't Listen He'll Listen once you file For Divorce You need to get out of this Marriage, That's what I can say.
2007-08-20 07:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by tfoley5000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can. It is great that you are secure in who you are and what things you want. Its normal to be selfish at times, especially if it has to do with the rest of your life. If you want to have kids I think that marriage is a good idea. If you feel like you would be under control of a man, then you have some issues you need to work out before marriage to anyone. Or he may not be the right guy. Trust your instincts, they are usually right.
2007-08-20 07:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by T I 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has nothing to do with your birth sign, it has to do with are you compatible with him, is he interesting, does he make you laugh, do you love him even if you two have a disagreement, can you stand the ups, downs, and rollercoaster of marriage, are you flexible, are you giving or are you a taker, is it your way or the highway, is it good when you two are together and are you able to give them space when they need it, if its all about you then no, your not ready to be married to this person or any other at this time, you have to wait until you can realize that you are one with this person and not two individuals although you don't lose your individuality while maintaining a marraige. You may need to go to a marriage counselor before getting married to see where you are and what you can improve in as a wife and how you can't be selfish in a marriage or in a relationship and want it to be good and to last a long time.
2007-08-20 07:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by justaboutpeace 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A marriage shouldn't be about anybody being in control. It's a give and take. Things should be mutual decisions. It's not supposed to be a dictatorship. I'm a leo and getting ready to celebrate 9 yrs of marriage. Yes, i'm headstrong and anyone who is gonna marry a leo should understand that.
2007-08-20 07:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by JLM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of these answers everyone has given you are so generic...just because he is an aquarius and just because you are a leo mean nothing by themselves. When it comes to a relationship, there are many more aspects to look at besides just your sun signs. There are the moon signs, Venus signs, and even Mars signs to take into consideration. I am Aquarius, Leo moon and Mars in Aries, so i tend to be a little more warm-hearted than your average Aquarius. This (in my experience) has attracted Leos more to me than many other fellow Aquarians. So if you want to know all of your potential strengths and weaknesses, get a compatiblity chart for the two of you. It can show you where you may need to work on, and him as well.
2016-05-18 00:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for almost 11 years, and I can assure you that if you find the right companion, you do not have to live under anyone's "rules". You love your partner and you find ways to live together- compromising, sharing, helping, and taking turns.
If you are in a relationship now where you feel like you are being controlled, or unable to have an equal say, then talk to him. If you aren't being heard or listened to, then leave him and find someone who will be your partner instead of your "father".
Good luck!!
2007-08-20 07:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married, over 10 years to a Virgo.
About to be Divorced.
It all depends on who a Leo is compatible with.
2007-08-20 09:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - horoscopes are superstitious nonsense. Don't bother with them.
Second - who said you have to be under the control of a man? You aren't being selfish - you're being an individual. If you like him or love him enough, marry him. But that means you're becoming his his wife, not his slave.
2007-08-20 07:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leo are lions in astrology.
It is your nature to be the nurturer of the house but also to be the king or queen of it as well!
You are loyal and headstrong.
You are a fierce competitor and inclined to find the beauty in the same sex, very appealing to you.
You are also prone to alcohol consumption and/or prescription drug abuse.
You also are prone to high stress and better suited for positions in management and decision making for a group.
It is in your nature to be the controlling one, yet you yearn to be controlled.
You must find a happy medium as all relationships are a lesson in give and take and working together for the common goal of home health and happiness.
2007-08-20 07:15:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋