so the sperm donor (aka the ex and the kids supposed father) called me yesterday saying he missed the kids. the same kids he hasnt called or seen all year, the same kids he pays zero dollars to help support. he proceeds to tell me how hard life is for him. i went off on a rant about how if anyone knows its hard its me. i dont get any help and i dont get a break. can you believe he has the nerve to think its hard for him when he doesnt even to a damn thing for the kids!
2007-08-20 06:47:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Men are selfish... I'm sorry to say, not all though but a lot. Always turning the tables around to make you feel pitty for them.
Keep up the good work your kids may not know what kind of mother they have until they get older.
2007-08-20 06:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My son's sperm donor is much the same way. He actually signed over his rights several years ago. Over time my son had questions about his biological father and so last year I contacted him and we talked about it. We decided that even though he didn't have rights, we would re-introduce them to each other and for a couple of months he was a great guy. Then the phone calls became less frequent, a birthday was missed... I finally told him not to contact us any more. It sucks. I feel for you.
2007-08-20 13:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I worked three jobs an went to school ...
I raised my daughter on my own with no help
from her so called father....she is 26 now
but after all that time not being in contact with her he had the nerve to stay with her and my 4 grand children, he borrowed $400
dollars off of her and took off never to be heard from again...arrrg
so I know how you feel...
2007-08-20 13:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Saw Dust♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know where you are comming from, my ex hasn't seen his kids or paid anything in over 6 years. It is tough but not much you can do about it. Just make sure that you are there for them and be the best parent you can be. Good luck
2007-08-20 13:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by foxyhdgrl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If I had kids I would definately be more responsible for them.
The ex was not able to bear children.
2007-08-20 17:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by bummer101467 <2HeartKnight> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but how many 'good men' did you ignore to get to this guy? My wife left and took our daughter because she found some muscle bound guy who dumped her and then she wanted me to give -- oh, hell. Nothing ever works out, does it?
2007-08-20 13:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Total jerkoff. The kids might as well have a house plant as a father. sigh.
Love ya...MUAH!
2007-08-20 14:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by spink_is_not_dead 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absentee parents never cease to amaze me.... everything is always about them and how it effects them. It never stops and it never changes.
(and, yes, of course, there are exceptions to that - but none that I've personally encountered.)
2007-08-20 14:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Durga sings the classics 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
got one just like him!
didnt call her for 2 years then on her birthday he called her up ...she told him he couldnt just wake up one day and decide to be a dad....happiest day of my life
2007-08-20 14:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DRAGON say hims sound like biggest @rse
2007-08-20 16:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋