Men are supposed to be with more than one woman. We marry one to have kids and stability. We sleep with the rest to keep our lives exciting.
2007-08-20 06:41:04 · 42 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmm...well here's a fact...go look it up:
40% of women have cheated on their spouses & 70% of men have cheated. You are telling me that none of you have cheated. Those numbers are just from people who answered honestly. Most likely the numbers are a lot higher. Still think people are supposed to have sex with one person for life?
2007-08-20 06:55:08 · update #1
100% right on!!!!!!!
2007-08-20 06:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by timestamps 6 · 2⤊ 14⤋
Honest question in response to your question - Are you happy in your life? Also curious as to how long you've been married (if you are married) and how old you are. But seriously - I'd say you're outnumbered - most people think there is definitely such a thing as cheating. I also think it is obvious that we aren't biologically designed to be with a large number of partners - just look at the STD stats.
2007-08-20 07:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you marry someone, you both become as one, according to the bible. Infidelity, is betraying your spouse by having an affair with someone else. Monogamy is another word you might want to look up in the dictionary. If you do not want a monogomous relationship, you should not get married. If you are only marrying for children, you are cheating your spouse and the children out of living with good moral beliefs.
2007-08-20 07:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you certainly got under a lot of people's skins.
By nature, no, I don't think we are 'meant' to be monogamous, whatever 'meant' means, in the Darwinian sense. But surely you are aware that women get just as bored of their husbands as men do of their wives? The point is, marriage is much more than "mating'. Husbands who sleep around risk losing their wives and their kids and their stability - my husband did, though I don't honestly know if he's sad about losing us, or relieved.
2007-08-20 09:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by clio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who buy into this myth are the men who need an excuse to justify their inability to commit to one woman. If you marry the right woman, you will always be able to find ways to keep your sex life exciting. If you don't feel this way, the solution is simple. Don't get married.
But be forewarned, if you spend your whole life jumping from one woman to another, who will be there for you later on when you need some one? You are depriving yourself of one of the most beautiful relationships on earth, that of a loving, loyal marriage.
2007-08-20 06:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by jules 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
know what? it's natural for men not in the eyes of God to sleep with other woman if they're not married and don't have kids yet! but if a guy have that both, then i'm sory to say that they do not much love their wifes and the family that he has! they're not contented with one woman they marry and loved! i have a question for you, what would you feel if your wife cheated on you? that's what we can feel too..cheating will only made a bad result for a relationship most importantly in a "family"..
2007-08-20 07:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by sheenydee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be one of those guys who dress up and pretend to be a gotti boy and think every girl wants your penis. hahaha you make me laugh. why would u marry someone if u wanted to screw around with other people, you think that women are just there for whenever you need them. dont underestimate us, buddy ur going to come across the WRONG women one day and end up with either; no teeth from being knocked the hell out; dead from some psycho you thought you could screw and then go be with 384894 other women; or with a horribly nasty STD. Good Luck =)
2007-08-20 07:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by -----------n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a pig who is just trying to get everyone upset that answers this question. At least I hope that's what the deal is and you don't really have some poor woman that you treat like **** to keep yourself happy. You poor pathetic little man.
2007-08-20 07:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only a pig would believe such filth. Men arent "supposed" to be with more than one woman... We arent supposed to be ur breeding stables either... how fair is it that you marry one woman, have kids with her and cheat on her with multiple women while she is stuck in a disgusting relationship with your children... how fair is that? You ruin her life and get her stuck, while you go play the happy whore... yeah what the hell were we thinking? Its so appropriate for men to do this.
and men wonder what is wrong with women... Lorraine Bobbit anyone? hahaha
2007-08-20 06:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
When men accept that it is OK for their wives to have other lovers then maybe women will start to accept it too. This question is obviously written to rile up readers, but I'm not taking the bait.
2007-08-20 06:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by onebigfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The men who tell themselves they are supposed to be with many women..........are the men that have to keep changing partners cuz they are so lacking no women wants to do them a second time.
2007-08-20 07:31:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋