My husband yelled at me?

Question

He called and yelled at me, while I was at work. What should I do?

Answer 1

Your husband is a really really good man. Just listen to his counsel, and don't talk back.

God Bless you, and thanks for helping my 14 year old daughter get that abortion.

Answer 2

That was pretty childish of him to do that......... so for the moment I'd suggest that you try and re-focus back on your job. You'll have time to deal with him later.

I would also suggest that you tell him to never call you at work to yell at you. What's the point of doing that? You can't fix whatever has him all butthurt while you are at work, right? He'd have been better served to have waited, figured out how to deal with whatever it was that was bothering him, and then discussing it with you like adults at the end of the day.

He's your husband and I am assuming that this is an unusual reaction on his part. You can either hold onto your anger all day... let it grow and then plan on having a HUGE fight when you get home... or you can wait it out... see if he's come to grips with whatever had him all twisted up... and go from there. You have the power to not hold onto your anger!

But seriously........ tell him that if he ever wants to call you at work and yell at you, you'd just as soon not hear from him

Answer 3

Wait until you get home and calmly tell your husband that you don't mind him calling you at work when it's necessary; but he cannot call and disrespect you, as he did earlier today. Nothing could have been that serious that he needed to behave in such a childish manner. If he starts yelling at you again like that, immediately hang up the telephone.

Answer 4

Tell him not to ever cross that line with you again. When you are at work the last thing you need is added personal stress. He really crossed a line with this one. I am sure it is nothing that couldn't wait till you got home. I would then tell him I don't call him at work and yell at him, even though I am sure you have wanted to, and he better not ever do the same, if he does there will be some serious repraucations.

Answer 5

I really want to help you on this one but I have a question instead.

Is there a reason for him to get mad and yell at you?

Whatever the reason is, you should talk to him and tell him that you feel bad because he yelled at you.

Answer 6

Act like a grown up, you tell your husband he had no right to call you during work and yell at you. The next time he does it tell him when he can speak to you in a normal tone you will continue the converstion and hang up.

Answer 7

Their has to be more to the store besides he called me and was yelling what did you do our say that made him mad or what happened and what was he yelling about??

Answer 8

It's too late to hang up on him now, so I guess you'll have to talk this out when you get home. In the meantime, put that a** out of your mind and give work your all.

Answer 9

With no information on WHY he yelled at you, I can't help you. But I could tell you this- get over it! It's not like he came into work and beat the hell out of you. This may happen again depending on what caused it... It's not the end of the world.

Answer 10

you could let him know you feel his yelling while you are at work was inappropriate?

maybe ask him to save the "family issues" for your off work time?

take care

Answer 11

Regardless of the why, he needs to respect the location you're at, unless of course he wants to pay ALL the bills. Second, unless HE is in jail for whatever it was he perceived as your crime, a calmer approach should be agreed on so from this day forward calls like that are avoided.