okay. so sometimes me and my boyfriend start messing around and he gets hard. although we have already had sex, sometimes, he gets hard and we just make out.
does it feel weird for a guy to get an erection, and then not c*m? and how long does it take for an erection to go away?
2007-08-20 06:26:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I'll try to be short & clear.
- yes and not.... depending on circumstances. Erection could give no embarrassment if guy is together his g/f or alone, i.e.
- The lack of ejaculation (orgasm) should give embarrassment or vexation if a normal sexual act is in progress!
- that is depending on the excitement and erection could be on for hours even. On the contrary, during sexual intercourse, erection comes down as orgasm arrives.
2007-08-20 06:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
scientifically a male has an erection every 80 minutes, but I don't ejaculate every 80 minutes when I get one. A lot of times I don't even know i did. I mean I'd like to orgasm every 80 minutes, wow, that'd sure make the day go by faster. An erection can come and go in a heartbeat, like I said every 80 minutes is a lot of up and down. The only time it really hurts is if a guy was having sex and for some reason doesn't come, he can develop what is called blue balls, it's happened to me twice. It can be pretty uncomfortable and usually gets better if the guy masturbates to get his load out.
2007-08-20 16:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Except for in the morning, a man's erection is a mental thing. By morning, i mean more like when he wakes up, sometimes there's the whole extra blood flow thing i guess and men will get random morning wood. That random erection when waking up.
A man's hormones begin to act up when he thinks he is going to get laid, and yes sometimes kissing will lead to that (erection). Just because he thinks he is going to get lucky.
I haven't missed a chance to ***, rather i havent held it in or anything. If I'm going to *** then I'll ***. But to just have an erection doesn't mean he has to ***. If there is extended sexual activity then he'll usually feel that has to ***.
But an erection is just a signal that he's ready, nothing more. If the erection isn't overstimulated then there is no need to have to ***.
2007-08-20 14:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erections feel great, and depending on the situation they can come and go real fast.
2007-08-20 14:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate getting a erection during sex and then stop for some odd reason and not being able to c*m I hate it.
2007-08-20 13:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by tibecuador 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, guys get erections all the time. especially when they are young and full of hormones. it gets erect and then just goes back down. no big thing.
2007-08-20 13:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by ohiojeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get hard when the wind blows or I kiss my wife, or she gives me a reason to get a chubby. It doesn't hurt, it's just annoying. Usually goes down in a couple of minutes.
If he's hardening during kissing, your still getting him hot.
All hail hardons!
2007-08-20 15:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can get those anytime or place, he probably gets one every time he kisses you, that dosent mean he wants sex, just that kissing you makes him excited. a guy can get one even when he isnt thinking about anything.
It just happens.
it can last seconds to an hour. Ive never had one near that long but Ive heard it can happen.
2007-08-20 19:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by robertt223 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that weird, at his age most guys get what, 20 a day anyways? Don't let him make you feel guilty about it.
2007-08-20 15:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how the guy, is but it usually taks a few minutes or it goes away pretty quick!
2007-08-20 13:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by jonathangarcia213 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋