I've been with my girlfriend for three months now, and we have been sleeping in the same bed almost every night. But so far we still haven't had real "sex" yet. The farest we've got was just topless with panties on, we would kiss aggressively for hours everynight but neither of us would make the first move to go all the way. I think there is this game going on between us right now to see who would make the first move, but neither of us would give in. It's driving me crazy because I have been kissing her for over 100 hours now and it's extremely hard for me to keep on resisting. How Can I Take It to The Next Level?
2007-08-20 06:15:07 · 11 answers · asked by Lily Y 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Keep doing what you are doing, be more aggressive when you are kissing her. I've had similar problem before, me and my girl would kiss for hours but neither of us would dive in. In the end the tension became too high and we took off eachother's panties at the same time...it was so hoot...so don't be hurry.
2007-08-20 07:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok .... OK .... OK ....
Sorry I zoned out just visualizing you both .... I think I've seen the video!
The answer: Break the Ice one night when you get into bed before her by getting in nude! She will notice when you begin kissing and hopefully one thing will lead to another and......
Maybe when you gently run your hand down her side to her thigh, she will do the same and find that there is full access to skin. If she does not take the hint ... it will be up to you to make the next move. Start slow at her breasts and kiss and caress your way downward. I doubt that you will find any resistance!
Have fun and enjoy life! Best wishes!
2007-08-20 17:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by steveheremd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the problem is that you two have an unacknowledged game going on to try and get the other person to take the risk and make the next move, then abandon the freakin' game and make the move yourself.
2007-08-20 13:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by stmichaeldet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on baby, take the first step and take her undergarments off and then your own...it will be just for once and then both will go by the impulse......you will feel you have missed too much in life until now....making first move will not be like a defeat, it will be a victory as you will take the lead role in the whole game and dictate your terms.....
you are a frank, brave girl....so take this step witout wasting any more time.....!!!!!
2007-08-20 13:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by cutechick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important move at the right time is to massage or rub her breasts before you "go down there". This IS the next step.
2007-08-20 13:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move in for it. Start kissing her going farther, farther down. Then, work your magic. It sounds like you are both ready.
2007-08-20 13:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by N♂t - ♂ut - Yet 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just make the move, yes you do it go on.You both sound ready.good luck.
2007-08-20 13:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by jade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this might sound crazy...just do it! Jeezzzz, that way we don't have to hear about it!
2007-08-20 13:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lil_bit_witty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-20 13:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by tasty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST DO IT !!!!
2007-08-20 13:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by julien 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋