Not really. I have little time or patience with revenge. In fact one of my favorite personal mantras is that success is the best revenge.
In Taoist philosophy it is said that what you resist, persists, but what you embrace you gain control over. Hence, embracing your flaws and weaknesses gives you power over them, and from them can emerge your greatest strengths.
Plus, what you focus on tends to expand, so I chose to focus on the positive, on abundance and joy, and that is what expands in my life. In the words of Jesus, "let the dead bury the dead."
2007-08-20 07:56:50
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answered by X 4
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No, just VERY, VERY hurt and PISSED too!
Being vindictive would only make matters worse.
Secretly I'd LOVE to get revenge tho'! hehe ;) Ooooops! Did I say that out loud??!!
2007-08-20 13:15:15
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answered by Anonymous
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No, I just need an apology. I'm talking about apology while giving me the whole truth of what really happened. I hate it when people try to apologize with some white lies. As of right now, I am ignoring my friends because I need some time to be alone.
2007-08-20 13:18:14
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answered by Patito 4
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No, It's not worth the time or energy to be something i'm not anyway. At that point I would be no better than them. Rather take that time to heal without all the added negative emotion.
2007-08-20 13:56:01
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answered by ITALIAN PRINCESS 3
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No, I have to admit I do have bad thoughts at first but than I remember what comes around goes around and I get over it! I move on with my life!
2007-08-20 15:23:00
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answered by lisababyg ♥ 5
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No!! I follow what the God tells me to do and that is to love unconditionally no matter what. To always forgive and walk in love. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Would you want to be treated the same way you are doing to others?
2007-08-20 14:20:37
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answered by Shelley 2
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No.
I don't do that. It would diminish me as a person and my own character long after the short term satisfaction was over.
2007-08-20 13:14:44
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answered by Lisa the Pooh 7
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I may not be be vindictive, but I don't forget either.
2007-08-20 13:20:46
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answered by Thunderman9 6
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at first, yes but i hold back because they will be the ones who suffer in the end!
2007-08-20 13:14:23
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answered by New York Chic 6
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Heck, no! It needed winding.
2007-08-20 13:24:31
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answered by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7
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