i been friends with this girl for 3 years now and last year i introduced her to 1 of my bbal friends. and lately she as been ignorin me lik she will go to da mall with all our friends but me. and now i found out she has a new s/n n she didnt even tell me about it i had to find out from my other friends profile . i feel lik da out kast of the group wat shuld i do. am i the problem or um well idk i feel lik they r pretendin 2 b my friends .
2007-08-20 04:41:25 · 13 answers · asked by LuckieDucky22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thanks for all your help but im going to the movies with her .she came to me .now all i need to no is how to delete this question
2007-08-21 04:02:12 · update #1
human begin are unpredictable in life. situation might warrant it or she just ned a break. forget that and move ahead. best of luck.
2007-08-20 04:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a coupla friends from "your group", and/or the one(s) you feel closest to, and go out to see a movie or just catch a light meal. If everything goes smoothly and there's no akwardness then it might be in your head. If not, maybe it's time to find a true friend that you can talk to about anything. Sometimes it's as obvious as it seems but at the same time you never know, the bestest friend ever could be right around the corner.
2007-08-20 11:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need friends like her like you need a broken leg. She has been using you and seems to make a game out of jerking you around and pretending to be your friend and then probably laughing at you behind your back. Sometimes we want something so bad we act like a doormat thinking that we want it so bad we put up with crap. Have some pride and move on. You don't need people like that. There are nicer girls who would be glad to be your friends if you show interest in them.
2007-08-20 11:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Gma Joan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New friends, new boyfriends....well...new anything really is like having a new toy. You want to play with it all the time till it gets old to you. I think that's what is happening. I don't think she's intentionally shutting you out, but just to make sure, you should ask her to come have coffee, or lunch or something with you, just you and her. Talk to her about it. There's a chance she might deny it, but overall, I think you might get to the root of this problem.
P.S. Ask around, and if she's talking about you behind your back, she's definitely not your friend anymore.
2007-08-20 11:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Shawnne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you friends with this girl or are you bf and gf. If you are just friends, I would say give them space cause it sounds like they hit it off and you are a third wheel. Hang out with other friends.
2007-08-20 11:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by cat lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her about it. Say, "What's up? Why didn't you tell me about your new s/n and you told everyone else? It's like you don't even want to be my friend anymore" if she says she still is your friends, idk about that. (sorry!) if she says, oh yea sorry, and keeps doing it, not your friends. If she says, sorry... and does better, she has just been a little off lately. If she says straight up that she isn't your friend or you're not hers, just get new friends that are better than her.
Good Luck!
2007-08-20 11:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Toy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like they say 2 is company 3 is a crowd. did u ask them try that then get back to me
2007-08-20 11:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is classic. every year, you most likely will hang out with a new crew. its time. be brave. tell her. break off. its for your own good. put yourself out there. find out more about your 2 friends. they might be true.
2007-08-20 11:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and find new friends. She is probably not doing it on purpose.
2007-08-20 11:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask somebody. No guts no glory
2007-08-20 11:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋