I'm 23year old,i already have two kids both are girls that i love so much.over the weekend i find out that i'm pregnant.and i told my kids father already and he wants to keep it.but i'm worried that everyone one i know will judge me for haven't a third child.so i'm just really confused.my mother say it's up to me and i didn't tell my father or my best friend.and my best friend is the one person who i know will never talk to me.should i end the friendship now or just wait to see what she gonna say.
2007-08-20 01:03:20 · 8 answers · asked by tiffany s 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Never let other people's decisions weigh down who you are. Dont allow other people to define who you are. Things could have worked out worse than this so thank God for the blessing and share the good news! So many people are trying hard to have babies and God saw you fit for this so dont allow other people to spoil it for you. Youre a consentual adult so nobody has the right to look down on you.
2007-08-20 01:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and the father of the baby want to keep the child, then don't listen to anyone else. I am only 25 and have a 5 and 2.5yr old and we are trying for number 3 (the final one!). I don't care what anybody says. This is what we want and if someone isn't going to be your friend because you are having another baby, then they aren't worth having in your life. Tell everybody! Rejoice! Its a miracle of life and a blessing and even though its hard, its the most rewarding thing you can do. If you love your children and they are well looked after and care for then what grounds do they have to criticise you?
Good luck and congratulations!
2007-08-20 08:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy; mum to 3 monkeys! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not base your decisions on what other people think about you!! Do what is best for you!! If you decide you do not want the baby i really hope you decide to put the baby up for adoption!! There are so many people out there that want a baby and can not have one! In your case it sounds like to me this baby was meant to be or God would not have given it to you!! God will not give you more than you can handle and every pregnancy is a miracle!!! Good luck!
2007-08-20 08:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's think about this.....you are 23 years old, you are grown and capable of making your own decisions. Letting someone interfere with your life and causing you to doubt yourself should not be involved. So with that being said if she is your best friend she should not be judging you. If she does, ditch her, there are better friends out there. This "best friend" doesn't have to agree with the 3rd pregnancy, but if she cares anything about you she will back you up and be there for you. Thats what friends are for right!!
2007-08-20 08:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by helenh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your last question said you were TRYING to get pregnant, so obveously you want to keep it, although i think maybe the kids father should have been let in on the fact that you were trying to concieve. also, why would your dad and best friend not be happy for you? if its what you want then they should have no influence on your choices.
2007-08-20 08:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by - 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your best friend is never going to talk to you again because you have another kid, shes not a good friend!! you should do what you want and what feels right and not worry about what anyone will say or think!!
2007-08-20 08:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia's Mama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would they judge you? It is up to you! don't get rid of the baby just because of what your neighbours might or might not think!!
2007-08-20 08:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by charliewarlieee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuo can make sex with your houseband !!!!!!!
2007-08-20 08:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋