hi, im 15 and i noticed that my friend had trouble with masturbation. He said that he wanted to avoid it, cause ill bother with his studying habits and sports....
Can u tell me some tips to avoid masturbation? And don't say it's good... just tell me some tips please. Thx.
2007-08-20 00:10:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It just like smoking,
Don't do it!
But there IS nothing wrong with it.
2007-08-20 00:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You may not like to here this....but biologically, there is a big difference between women refraining from masturbation and men refraining from masturbation.
Everyday, a male's body produces sperm and ejaculate. It causes a build up. If a man does not eject it occassionally through sexual activity or masturbation - it is going to come out maybe when your friend does not want it to. He may have wet dreams, or if he looks at pictures, etc that stimulate him, or touches a girl he is attracted to, he may also ejaculate and it might create an embarrassing situation for him.
It is a myth that people will be hyperobsessed with masturbation. He should just look it at as "maintenance" because sometimes its all it is.
When he is comfortable with his body enough to masturbate once in awhile, it will actually help his study habits because he won't be obsessed with thoughts about it.
Avoiding time alone is not an answer because one NEEDS alone time for other reasons to recharge from the world and one has to be comfortable with oneself when all the friends are gone home. Also, when one avoid things it does NOT go away.
What masturbation will also do is when he is older and falls in love with someone, he is at less risk for premature ejaculation because he is more aware of how his body responds. :the edge is taken off so to speak.
2007-08-20 13:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation doesn't take up hours and hours of your life if you don't allow it to. There's nothing wrong with it, but if you must avoid it....
Actually, its hard. Your a teenage guy like myself, and you find girls attractive. (Or vice versa, I dunno.) Its kind of blue-printed into our minds at this age because of the hormones and the changes our bodies are going through.
Its harder said then done, looking at girls and not being attracted to the cute ones and so on. Just wear a blindfold and call it a day, or enter a life of purity and become a priest. There is just a huge percentage of males that masturbate... I dunno, bribe yourself. Say that you'll go this long without masturbating, and if you do, buy yourself something nice. Kind of put it in mind that you can't spend what money you do get if you think or do that.... But as said, its much harder said then done.
2007-08-21 07:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by - Cyanide - 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chris is correct to a point.
a guys body makes semen and it builds up and our bodies desire realese about every 3 days, that dosent mean we need to do it.
will power only works to a point.
so do hobies and other things, at the end of the night your still in bed and its right there with you.
another problem with breaking the habit is its not only a habbit its an addiction. when a guy has an orgasm for the first time, the chymicals released in the brain are 10x's more addictive then Heroin, thats why guys when they start doing it are more likely to contenue doing it.
thats why when you stop, the body will crave that chymical again. and it will be hard to not do it.
2007-08-20 19:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by robertt223 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At that age I say it is going to be pretty hard. But it takes time to break a habit. Once he goes a couple weeks without doing it he will get used to it. But he will always cave in and masturbate its almost impossible for a teenager to not masturbate. The key is to get some control over his self and not make it an addiction
2007-08-20 07:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
i'm 15 and i kind of find it hard to stop doing it. I just keep myself busy with other things,but I will occasionally masturbate.
2007-08-20 16:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make yourself busy and lessen the times that you are alone. one more thing is
you cannot stop your self from doing that...
the only possible thing is to lessen it. thats a part of growth
2007-08-20 07:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by kenn g 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why would you avoid it?
only uptight Xtians tell you it's wrong. rubbing one off every now & then is perfectly normal & natural. see if you can get a girl you know to help out.
2007-08-20 07:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It will not bother anything. You need to get correct information.
2007-08-20 10:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by Solo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your mind busy on non-sexual things. if you fill it with stuff that doesnt arouse you, and fill your idle time with something else, you will be less tempted.
2007-08-20 07:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by ohiojeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋