i like this guy at school and i am shy to talk yo him what should i do andd he is not in my class
2007-08-19 22:02:08 · 8 answers · asked by Holly K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do not try to force anything hon. Don't approach him first, it could backfire on you. You have to let him be who he is even if it is something of a problem. Try to make eye contact with him and smile, the way you'd smile at your gran-pa or uncle; nothing sexy. Keep walking unless he stops you. Try to greet him often, but not every day in the beginning, until he gets familiar enough with you to feel comfortable. Then it's up to him to take it from there, if he wants too; he may not. btw, don't apologize for your shyness, that may endear you to him. Just be natural, go slow in the beginning and don't get ahead of him. Let him take the lead, you follow his lead. You gonna do fine, hon.
2007-08-19 23:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you find a common interest, like if he is a member of a school club, join aswell or go and watch. Another way would be to have a mutual friend and become friends that way.
2007-08-20 05:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to him and just start a casual conversation, say stuff that will make him talk back like, " Hey what's up" if you know him, then start out with questions you know he will stay and chat about.
2007-08-20 05:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Up There 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find out more about him, look for a new thing on him like a bag or shirt and ask him where he got it, praise his good taste at the same time i think a topic is established
2007-08-20 05:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be dare if you still shy maybe you lose him try to make normal conversation and make step by step but not slow and not rush and pray for this thing and be take care my be he is not good guy so watch your steps
2007-08-20 05:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by cool724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess it depends on your age..
but if you really like him, and he seems like a good guy just go for it. he cant like you if he doesnt know you exsist
2007-08-20 05:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
walk up to him.
open your mouth.
let something come out.
(but not like 'ur hot!')
he will respond.
simple as that.
2007-08-20 05:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by BRASiL 01 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just have regular conversation
2007-08-20 05:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋