I'm a lesbian myself, and I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago. I met a new girl recently, but so far I think we're nothing to each other but "sex partners". We would get together every few days or so and spend the night together. We wouldn't talk to each other about things in life, all we do was kiss aggressively in bed for hours until our lips are swollen, and then we would fall in sleep. The next morning we go separate ways again. I think there must something wrong with this......
2007-08-19 21:41:26 · 12 answers · asked by Lily Y 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You have formed a physical relationship, but not an emotional or psychological one. You are being fulfilled sexually, but obviously for one there is no deeper commitment. Some people are fine with this kind of relationship, but others want commitment...are you perhaps looking for something deeper??? The person you should be asking the questions to is the girl you are having sex with..perhaps the sexual side of things is all she wants and does not want anything deeper.. kissing someone...even all night does not say you love them...that could be just pure physical lust and you get carried away with the moment..and we have all done that...talk to her and see what she says. I hope everything goes well for you..
2007-08-19 21:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Paul D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you feel that something's amiss, then it _is_ wrong, you don't need others to tell you so. Consider your situation, think about what you want from this girl and talk it through with her. Cliche answer, but it's the best you can do.
2007-08-20 04:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Alana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah if all yall do is kiss then that's not considered sex. And y don't yall step it up a notch and have sex. and maybe she will spend more time with you, why get all hot and bathered to do nothing?
2007-08-20 06:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by rainbow stud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a straight persons perspective, this is all lust and not love. If you feel comfortable, then yes, I guess its ok. If your looking for a healthy relationship, go for someone else.
2007-08-20 04:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ge1st 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup something definitely wrong. why are you ending up with swollen lips ? did you have a bout with mike tyson after necking your shawryy ?
2007-08-20 04:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is so, so much wrong with this. You were designed by God and He has a plan for you that is so much better than what you're describing. I want you to know that God made you to be a wife to a husband and a mother to your children, and within the family as it was instituted by God, you will experience joy and contentment you never imagined.
Check out:
http://www.evergreen-intl.org
2007-08-20 04:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
there is nothing wrong with things you enjoy :)
try asking her on a date?
and next time take a camera and send it to me lol :D
2007-08-20 05:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by naph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, you just found your self a (rhymes with duck) buddy
2007-08-20 04:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better that no sex and just feelings ;)
2007-08-20 08:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by Masha T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This definitely is wrong.
first, same sex relationships are wrong (i know lotsa folks dont agree--please don't club me for saying this) and secondly the fact that you have nothing more than sex going on is simply grous.my advice would be: end it right now!
2007-08-20 04:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by ocean_girl 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋