As in European and all english countries, mostly girls and guys done sex without marriages, and having babies also, what do you think friends, is it good culture, that having babies, without marriages, and in one girls life many guys reach, and many times she sleep with many guys, even after that she also dont know that who was the father of baby, is it not bad, that if anyone ask to a baby who is his/her father then he/she dont know about it? what do you think its good culture?
2007-08-19 19:23:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you assume that all premarital sex results in babies. Then you assume that if there is a baby that due to multiple guys that we don't know who the father is. From the way you phrase your question, I think you also assume that all people in our culture sleep with many partners.
First many young women use birth control. While the culture once thought it was okay for men to have premarital sex with many partners and it was not okay for women, the scientific advances in birth control reset that double standard. As long as the premarital sex is between two responsible(using birth control) & consenting adults there is no harm to our culture or society. More ofter than not, you will also find that this is usually between two people that are in a long term relationship that might lead to marriage.
Secondly, genetic paternity testing puts to rest any question about who the father is. And while it's best for a child to be raised by two parents, many single mother's have extended families they rely upon. And those that don't have a mixed history of raising responsible children, this may be the greatest downfall to our society. But single mothers existed 100's of years before the sexual revolution and consentual pre-martial sex. I don't think adding a "taboo" to our culture would change anything or benefit those young girls that are persuaded or forced into unprotected sex. I think there needs to be better support for those single mothers, and not just monitary support, but community and child-care support. It does take a village to raise a child.
Thirdly, there is growing support behind not having pre-marital sex, and many young women and men are taking a promise to not do so.
2007-08-20 11:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by momaab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not "good culture" as you say. This is a huge problem. Every baby that is born without a strong family home cheapens life. I know that it happens and some make the best of it and have good relationships with all who are involved but I see so many that do not and remain lost souls throughout their lives. Good culture is to choose to have children with someone who will support you with both money and love. Please consider waiting for a man like this. It will make all the difference in yours and your children's lives.
2007-08-20 12:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by bfldmom3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly can't make any sense out of your question! Are you asking if it's ok to have children out of wedlock? If so, than I would say no, for the most part. Children need a strong family in order to flourish. The makeup of the family is not important - any gender combination is fine, but the love and cohesiveness of the family is the important factor. If a parent is single, he or she should live with other family members in order to provide the child with a strong family environment. I don't think the marital status is important, except that it provides a family with stronger legal ties.
2007-08-20 02:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by superfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not good that there are still so many babies being born through casual sex ...and its the young ones again (12 to 20 year olds) and they are stupid and ignorant, they are the most highly educated and savvy of all the generations and they are still having unsafe sex ....come on I mean how stupid and reckless are they ...and they can't say they didn't know and whats worse its the same as far as std's and hiv is concerned.... no its not a culture as we know or define it ..its just brainlessness.... when all you have to do is put a rubber on and then you can enjoy the great pleasures that sex can bring ...safely
2007-08-20 02:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe that promiscuity is good nor moral behavior, no matter what anatomy is involved. But I wouldn't go so far as to call it a culture. A problem, yes.
2007-08-20 02:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by Zaggy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pre maratal sex is ok and even if the baby is born to parents who arnt married is ok but a baby should have both parents as long as their alive
2007-08-20 04:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by ashif_noohu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is good culture
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2007-08-20 21:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋