see, i'm thirteen. my whole life, i've never been attracted to girls. i've always had crushes on guys, and have only thought of being with a guy. recently however, i've imagined being with another girl, , and i'm turned on when i see two girls kissing, holding hands, etc. it's not actually "recently". more like, the past year.
however, i can only honestly, physically imagine being with a guy. am i bi? if it is only hormones, how come i've been feeling like this for so long?
2007-08-19 18:56:18 · 11 answers · asked by fauna 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nah, probably not. You're straight. Just because you like one girl doesn't mean you automatically are gonna trip and fall and maybe like another one day. Don't give people false hope.
2007-08-19 19:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by MacabreLAM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a really hard question, if you don't know no one else can tell you that you are bi. i have known many girls who find other girls attractive and are turned on by girls kissing but they are not bi. the only way to know for sure would be to experiment, not that i am suggesting that you go out and do that. i wouldn't really worry about it, you either are or you aren't and you will still be the same person either way. maybe being with another girl is just a fantasy since you can't actually see yourself being with another girl. there is nothing wrong with that at all. being a teenager is the hardest part of growing up and this could be something that passes with age or something that stays with you forever . give your thoughts some time and maybe you will understand yourself better.
2007-08-20 02:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by shelly s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't say for sure, but we women are sexy, and don't you wish you could be as aggressive as some of those girls you've seen. For some reason doing something wrong (if you see it that way) can turn people on more. You read romance novels about someone having an affair or messing around in a public place. It seems more exciting and enticing. Your hormones could definitely be raging. For some reason women have sexier bodies in some ways than men. Don't know exactly, you will have to figure that out for yourself, but I can say that your whole life is just starting, especially when it comes to liking guys or girls.
2007-08-20 02:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by timzapasn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started masturbating toward lesbian porn when I was 12, at 17 I lost my virginity. At 23 I had my first sexual relationship with a woman and found out......I was almost completely str8. I found out fantasizing about women was......just fantasizing for me. Sure, they looked great naked. Yeah, they were fun to kiss ( a LOT of fun, hehehehe).....but, I liked men. A LOT. A LOT of LOT.
Fantasies and crushes are just that, fantasies and crushes. Wanting a hot chick to go down on you in a fantasy doesn't make it your orientation, if you date a guy and wish she was your friend Jen might. Being attracted doesn't make orientation.
And to be honest, at 13 this is a ridiculous conversation. While capable of orgasm, very few in your age range are capable of giving it. And if your partners are older, they are very close to pedophilia. At 13 you are flirting with sexuality, and you need to mature a LOT before you know what is your calling in life, be it sexual or otherwise.
2007-08-20 02:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by navy_brat913 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
based on what you said, i think your bi-curious. someone that has an interest in being in a relationship with a woman. you won't' know for sure if your bi unless you experiment. the fact, that you can't imagine being physical with a girl leaves me to believe it will likely remain a fantasy. you're only 13. i wouldn't worry about it. just don't deny your feelings. be yourself.
2007-08-20 02:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Slomotion Like Snail 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, most girls feel this way. You've probably found yourself unconciously checking out another girl nearby as well.
It's perfectly normal, it happens. Even I do it, and I consider myself completely hetero.
2007-08-20 02:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Chalice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be jsut going through a phase in your life. most ppl do and they experiment with the same sex to it's just a part off life, don't worry bout it it will either pass or you will turn bi sexual
2007-08-20 08:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by rainbow stud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it some time, maybe you are, and maybe not, but it sounds like it. If you still feel this way after a while, experiment with a few girls and see if you like it.
2007-08-20 02:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like just curiosity to me. You're reacting to the sexual nature of what's going on.....hormones. I personally don't think you're gay. Sounds like you're just reacting.
2007-08-20 03:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Illuminessa V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your straight but it also seems like your confused think about it more and chose what makes you happy dont chose whats socialy accepted
2007-08-20 04:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by ashif_noohu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋